What’s your gender? Genderqueer / Nonbinary
How old are you? 62
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Venice Beach, CA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? retired engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Survivor of incest age 5yrs and attempted maternal fillicide
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4
How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 yrs
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Marty, about 32 yrs old, recently from the San Fernando Valley, where she had all those things like kids, a home, cars, a lawn, a pool, and that stuff. She is a recently turned crack head. Honest and open, she put all of herself right on the line. We shared about three regular for fee hookups, pics. All good.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Hunting again one evening, I found her near Rose and Main. She says yes, but her pussy was broken down. She offered me a BJ, I declined as I told her, I could take all day that way. I would hate to see her spin her wheels. She said not to worry, that she would give me a discount, just toss the cash on the dash. So I did it her way, and damn, within seconds I was in positive suspense. One gasp of air later, I was done. It couldn’t be, but it was. She snatched the cash and was gone for a rock, you know how they are.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So here is what I figured she did, drinking a soda, she injected the liquid up my cock simulating a load, that much I felt. Soon I didn’t care as she was milking it out of me rhythmically. I thought I had cum. Well, I guess I did. Now, I know it wasn’t a prostate milking as we both sat in my small sports car with bucket seats.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She is just wonerful; a get it done type of girl who meets everybody’s needs. She is quick, honest, and very memorable.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few guy friends to try and figure out what happened. Only recently did I make a guy friend who is fairly knowledgeable about these things and we can talk. He says a bunch of stuff which I think is bull, but you never know. He says he can smell if a girl has cum, and that it’s on her breath. I say that’s not true, you’re just seeing the dribbles and extrapolating and we have a good laugh. He claims he can, the net says no???
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It is true and out there.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Some say it didn’t happen. Oh, f ’em they probably just want to steal my story.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Somewhat, you never know until you live it, real and live.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Yes the discount was $5
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s a good thing, many working girls are some of the most honest humans I have ever met.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good, you seem quite open. I have not been censured yet. Other online projects, well, for instance, RAINN censored me the other day it was in their online chat room. They were right because it was in mixed company, but what I said was the truth.
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