What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Polyamorous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Ramping It Up
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Unexpected casual group encounter
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A is 30, short, with curvy, long blonde hair, and an insatiable sexual appetite. We’ve been partners for almost 2 years. We met after I’d come out of a 9 year marriage with a partner who I’d discovered swinging with. Right from the start I told her about my lifestyle. She’d had a very conservative religious upbringing (similar to mine) and had only lost her virginity a few years previously, but was now wanting to make up for lost time. She asked for a few months to get to know each other then let me slowly and gradually lead her astray!
We started with casually introducing mates of mine into the mix – it was a bit daunting at first for her, but she was a real trooper, taking it all in her stride and trusting that I’d take care of her. I was impressed at how quickly she relaxed into it. She has a very healthy lust for guys and their cocks. She loves seeing them, feeling them, getting them hard, exploring what makes them twitch. Now she’d found herself in a relationship with a guy who not only had a libido to match hers but who actively encouraged her to indulge her own lust.
We gradually progressed to meeting guys online. Meeting strangers for sex raised it to a new level. She also having a few encounters on her own but with my full knowledge and support. I love the thought of her having sex and hearing about it later and I am constantly encouraging this.
We’re regulars at a nudist beach during the summer. There are a lot of tracks through the bush on the headlands where people occasionally go for a bit activity. We often go with another couple, the other wife and I will often read on the beach while A and the husband go for walks around the headland to chat. They are both great talkers. They invariably have a couple of guys follow them hoping to see some action. A, who loves public sex, had discussed doing something with me while guys watched us, so when we went to the beach yesterday, we already had in mind setting something up just to see what happened.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We’d previously discussed going for a walk, knowing we’d get some guys following us. We would then find somewhere discrete where A would go down on me, and we would just let them watch. With all our encounters however, A likes to gradually expand her comfort zone. I tend to be a bit more adventurous and push her boundaries just a bit while still keeping her safe.
We found a discrete spot a little off the track and started kissing while she stroked my cock. I gently ran a finger around her clit. After a few minutes she asked if she could go down on me. Naturally, I said yes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It didn’t take long before A looked up at me and quietly said that there was someone watching us before going back to sucking my cock. I turned around and saw a naked guy watching us, slowly stroking his cock. Although I knew that was about as much as A wanted at this stage, I wanted to push things a bit further so signaled for him to come closer. I could tell A was now a little nervous, but I held her head to my cock and she bravely kept going, focusing very much on me, eyes closed but still knowing there was another stranger right next to us, stroking his cock just centimeters from her face.
I was very tempted to take her hand and put it on his cock but thought that it might be step too far at this stage. Instead, I asked him if he’d like to cum on her breasts. That started us talking a bit. I thought I’d caught someone else out of the corner of my eye and he said there were a few others looking. I saw another younger guy with his cock out and turned A and I so he could get a better view, before signaling him to come closer.
Both guys were now behind A while she was down on her knees, sucking my cock. I asked them if they would like to cum on her ass. They enthusiastically said yes. I could tell the sexual tension was getting to everyone. A was a little nervous about what might happen, the guys were hard and very horny, and of course I was happy orchestrating this.
I pulled A to her feet and kissed her. Then I slipped a finger into her now very wet puss, telling the guys they could rub their cocks on her and feel her but not fuck her (we had no condoms with us). The younger guy immediately lay his hard cock between her butt cheeks & started dry humping her, reaching around to feel her breasts. The first guy was rubbing his cock on her thigh, reaching around to finger her pussy before kneeling in front of her to lick her clit while she stroked me to orgasm.
Although by this stage we’d had a number of threesomes, this was her first time with 3 guys at once, 2 of them complete strangers, and in a public place. I could tell she’d reached the limit of what she was comfortable with, having already gone so much further than she’d expected. So I told the guys we’d come to the end and to their credit, they both stopped and politely thanked us for sharing the experience with them, even though they hadn’t come. All in all it really could not have gone better for a first time and we’ve already discussed being better prepared (condoms) for next time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We swam from the headland back to the beach. We talked about it and what we’d like to do next time. I want to see her with a group of guys. She really loves turning guys on, and she loves playing with their cocks, making them come, and being fucked. She also has a thing for public sex so this fulfilled a few fantasies for both of us. Now onwards and upwards to more adventures!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? So far only A.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fulfilling fantasies, the feeling of freedom to indulge our desires. The sexual energy from a group of aroused horny people all focused on physical pleasure.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing, I would have liked it to go further but baby steps…
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I love casual sex
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I grew up in a very conservative, restrictive christian environment where sex was regarded as evil. I struggled with this as I was fascinated by girls/women (and sex once I learnt about it) from as far back as I can remember. After a long, cold marriage ended, I made a conscious decision to explore sex (with a partner mentioned in a previous story) and have never looked back. It’s been a journey – things dont change overnight – but its been an interesting, fulfilling journey.
There’s far more talk these days about options for relationships, more openess to sexuality outside what used to be regarded as “normal”, which is fantastic. I think we need to fiercley guard against reactionary hostility from conservative groups to this increasing openess.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it, awesome idea
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