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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Malaysia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Random Encounter On Travel

How long ago did this hookup happen? A month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Found her through a social app. Both of us were solo travelers. She is from China. We decided to meet the next day. She is slim and fair looking and looked pretty in her photos.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met to go around the town together. It rained and was cold. She held on to me as I had the only umbrella. After lunch, the rain was still heavy, so I asked her if she wanted to rest over at my hotel. She agreed and we went back.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were sleeping on the bed initially but after a while I ran my fingers on her face and arms. She did not resist and I gave her a peck on her cheek. She returned the favor by kissing me on the lips. After a few minutes, she asked if I had protection before we started to slowly strip each other. I fingered her and she was really wet. She gave me a very good blow job as well. I entered her later and she moaned quite loudly until I came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a little confused because it was my first time having sex with a stranger. We did go out together again the next day but did not have sex. We went separate ways after that.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was a spur of the moment and she was good.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I didn’t stay in touch.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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