What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Office work
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Naw
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Random Hotel Sex In Spain
How long ago did this hookup happen? Early December 2018
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She’s a Peruvian girl in the medical profession in Miami. I had never met her before and don’t want to meet her again. When I met her I thought she was very cute but a little chubby. We met because we were staying at the same hotel in Seville, Spain. She was kind of annoying and air-headed but she was obviously trying to sleep with me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She came back to the hotel with her friend who immediately went upstairs to sleep after going out. She was flirty as hell and looking to score by the time she came back. She had a few drinks in her already I think and we drank a little more. I could tell she wanted to kiss me so I went for it. We kissed and it took all of 2 seconds for her to take her shirt off.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I have never met a girl so ready to bang in all my life. It was like greenlight go from the second we hit the room. She wouldn’t have sex without a condom so I had to go run and get some. That was the only downside, besides the fact that once we got started her pussy was so loose it was ridiculous. Biggest vagina I’ve ever had and she was a shorty too so I wasn’t expecting that. She was not very good in bed. We banged a couple of times. She was voracious but super awkward. It was like having sex with a miniature Tasmanian devil that didn’t know what she was doing. I was glad to see her go honestly.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Not at all
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, she tried to text me and keep in touch but I wasn’t having it. I can’t even remember if I texted her a few times or not but definitely after a few days I cut off contact. She obviously has some issues. I feel kind of bad fucking her and not keeping in touch but this girl was crazy as hell. The memory is cool cause I can brag to all my friends but I don’t respect this chick in the slightest.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, I was feeling lonely, Power / Dominance, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? All of my friends know. I even took some pictures and still have them. She was too into it to notice but I don’t think this girl would have cared.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? It wasn’t worth my time or money spent on condoms. She sucked in bed. Giant pussy.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Unexpected and easy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The girl attached to that face was annoying.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Girls are so slutty it’s crazy. I think girls want it because of an emotional reason where men want it cause of a physical reason.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Thanks for making me wear a condom! Don’t want to be attached to that girl for 18 years or get something that needs a visit to the doctor’s office.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing really. Just remember women, when you have sex with a guy on vacation don’t expect him to call you.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it. Great forum for us to get these stories out.
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