What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Texas
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Project Manager
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? So, I met this girl, in her 20’s amongst friends while having drinks at a fancy lounge. My friend had his platonic girl friend brings some of her girl friends to a fancy lounge. It was a bit too prentetous for me and I mostly just tried to make the girls laugh and joked about the people “striking posses” in the lounge.
I chatted up all the girls for a bit, and had to leave to meet another group. I decided to pay the bill, since they bought champagne and hate splitting tabs.
Fast forward hours later, I meet one of the girls from the group outside a collegey type bar in the city. We ended up parting that’s night dancing and taking shots. I was a bit flirtatious that night but was more focused on just drinking and having a good time.
Fast forward a month, I mention that I am in a new city via Facebook and she messaged me asking about the city. I said come by and visit and I’ll pay the bus ticket. She did!
I picked her up from the stop and it was a bit awkward as we haven’t even kissed and I wasn’t sure where this was going to go.
I took her to my roof deck and chatted about the city and how she liked Houston. She was pretty quiet the whole time and very attractive, and I got some signals to go in. We started making out then she just flipped, became very aggressive and nearly started choking me on this rooftop. We were making out, dry humping all over this couch.
We then went downstairs and did everything. She had the most perfect, perky young breasts with golden nipples and completely waxed.
It was such a departure from 30 minutes from her she demeanor. Then next thing she keeps screaming me to “fuck her hard”
I was actually a bit too drunk that night to get her to cum during sex. So in the next morning we sealed the deal.
I haven’t had see with her after that weekend. We have seen each other and both acknowledge it was a one night stand.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began on my roof deck. I instigated the kiss
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Everything.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We actually spent time in the city, explored it and met friends. She literally smoked weed the whole time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Not many people.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Good sex
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Ensure you communicate well
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it
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