by Do I really gotta?

Gender: Male
Age: 42
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: TX
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Engineer
Relationship status: Married, very happily
Religious affiliation: Unitarian?
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I like to experiment
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? First one

Rattlesnakes Bit Her

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 or 7 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Group, One Night Stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife and I had been together for around 5 years or so and were experimenting with an open marriage. Her libido is unusually low, mine is unusually high and this was helping to increase her interest level somewhat. She is short, cute, and had a muffing top at the time. “Curvilicious”
“L” was a coworker of mine that I became fast friends with. A little shorter than me, also “tall, dark, and handsome”, which is what my wife likes.
“D” was a girl he knew, don’t really know any of her history. She was on the bigger side, but I found her attractive.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? L & D showed up on our doorstep one evening, we weren’t planning on company.
I ran to the liquor store and grabbed a “Snake bite kit” and we spent the evening doing shots, eating Doritos, and playing dominoes (which turned into Truth or Dare and later into Strip Dominoes).
D, it turns out, is bi- and found my wife irresistible. I remember as the clothes came off, D couldn’t help herself and started eating her out under the table. This made my wife blush! Hehe

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? This started getting L and I turned on, so we removed the rest of our clothes. D had moved my wife to the floor and was eating her out with gusto. My wife started to give head to L while I watched. L motioned for me to mount D doggie style so I grabbed a condom and stuck it in. Very wet, very snug. I was happy.
Just about the time my wife was about to cum, the alcohol overwhelmed her and she abruptly got up and ran towards the bathroom. She didn’t make it.
This triggered a chain reaction in L and he ran towards the kitchen sink.
D and I sat there for a moment saying WTF? then we got up to check on the other two and clean up the mess (also the dining room table fell over, not sure when that happened LOL).
After making sure everyone was fine, I asked my wife if she minded if I finished what I had started with D and was giving a “thumbs up”.
Her and I moved into my bedroom and had a quickie missionary style. Surprisingly, I stayed hard during the cleanup and didn’t have to use a second condom.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did, my wife almost did. I think D might have, but L was too sick to continue.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? A condom was used during penetration, but there was no discussion about STI.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was a pleasant surprise for us, but I think L & D had it planned.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Way too many shots of Rattlesnake mix.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? D and I cleaned up and everyone got dressed. We hung out and talked for a bit while L sobered up enough to be safe to drive.
I felt very sated and happy. D had post-coital glow. The other two were looking pretty green haha.
This was strictly a casual hookup, there were no expectations for the future.
Still married to the wife, and Facebook friends with L. My wife and I ran into D at a grocery store a few months later and it was awkward for about 30 seconds until she told us she had gotten engaged and introduced us to her fiancée.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my upstairs neighbor, we were smoking buddies (and a virgin at the time), so she heard about all my escapades. And I might have told some other friends to make them jealous, but I can’t remember for sure.
I don’t know if the others told anyone or not.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Oh, hell yeah!
I want to have another scenario like this.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it at all. It spiked my wife’s libido for a couple weeks.
I think she and L regretted their hangovers though! hehe

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was it was spontaneous, unplanned, and the situation flowed easily, unforced (well, ok- there was the booze…)
The worst was the interruption of the evening by two folks getting drunk-sick. I sometimes wonder where the evening would have headed if everyone remained an able participant.
This hookup prompted a few more attempts with other folks with varying levels of success. I plan to write up a few more soon.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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