What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Nothing offical at the moment
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? polyamorous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50-100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Rave Sex (PLUR)
How long ago did this hookup happen? October
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? train run
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? There were 7 guys that night. Two of them I had arrived with, two of them were friends of the guys I came with, and the other three I didn’t know at all, nor do I remember anything about them. I met them all that day/night though. I wasn’t actually interested in any of them, I was just fucked up and it was dark, so when I opened my legs for one, they all had fun with me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’m not too sure actually how it started or what was said; I just remember dancing, drinking and doing drugs with people & having a good time, and the next thing I remember is a bunch of guys taking turns fucking me. I clearly wanted it though, I probably was the one who asked for it. Maybe not all of them, but a few.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I bent over and touched my hands to my feet, pants around my ankles, and let them fuck me one by one. I obviously enjoyed it because I didn’t stop them whatsoever, even when they told me they were gonna go get more people. They looked at me as this drunk slut who wanted to get fucked, because that’s exactly what I was. I don’t really remember talking to any of them except the last one, who I ended up staying with and fucking for the next day and a half.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we went back to doing our own thing. I see them around occasionally, but we don’t talk about it. What happens at a renegade stays at a renegade. No feelings were involved with any of them except the last one, who kept telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me, but to me it was just sex. He occasionally tries to talk to me and hang out with me, but I’m not too sure how I feel about that. I might do it again, who knows.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Everyone that was there knew what happened, because we did it in the open. One girl came up to me and straight up said “you’re a whore”. I replied with “I know :)”. Another girl was lecturing me about how wrong and dirty that was, and that if I did it again she would put me on a leash like an animal, since I was acting like one. I got a few people that told me that if I was gonna do that, I should at least be getting paid for it. I was the center of attention after that, mostly negativity but I still had fun lol.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I should have been having a good time raving with people instead of acting like a drunken slut at a house party. Also I did it right in the open so I everyone knew what I was doing as I was doing it, not after. Plus I don’t know who exactly I was fucking, and i’m pretty sure they didn’t wear protection.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got laid and so did other people!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? People wouldn’t stop talking shit and giving me dirty looks. I still get dirty looks sometimes.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope, it just made me pay attention to who i’m fucking more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? This was the first time I’ve had a train ran on me. Definitely a memory for the books.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is normal, and healthy. It definitely has a very big role in my life, most of the sex I engage in is casual rather than romantic/deep. I think casual sex has helped me be more outgoing, fun, and overall a happier and healthier person.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think this is an amazing way for people to feel more comfortable with their sex lives, and can be open about it without judgement from people they know. I love it!
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