What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Kenya
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Counselor
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
Raw Public Fuck
How long ago did this hookup happen? a few days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? B was tall and dark and he seemed younger than me. We were at a club celebrating my friend’s birthday bash. I didn’t know B at all, he was a friend’s friend but when he approached me for a dance he was very confident which turned me on. I was a little more drunk than my limit, B noticed and started feeding me ice cubes to sober me up.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We tired of dancing and talked instead. He told me that he found my confidence sexy because I was the only girl who dared to go to the club in pajamas (I didn’t get time to change, so). After talking for about an hour and I was sobered up we decided to go to the next nearest club for cigarettes. We were standing right by the roadside smoking and making out in turns. The conversation turned sexual and I was very turned on. I dared him to touch my vagina and he lifted my dress and did. I rubbed his penis which was now fully erect on my hands. We saw that we had quite an audience (taxi drivers) but didn’t care. I dared him to fuck me right there and then while everyone watched. I had been fucking someone else during the day so my vagina was sore. He noticed that I had been busy when he fingered me which I think aroused him even more. He lifted me up against some kiosk, pulled his penis out and fucked me. Our friends who were partying with us kept calling but we ignored. I loved feeling his hard penis inside my wet pussy. I’d always wanted to have public sex but never imagined myself doing it that much in the open.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He lifted me up to his waist and fucked me. It was the most careless thing to do as I had always been careful about using protection. But this mine aroused me so much that I didn’t have a care in the world. I let myself go and he fucked me. All the cars passing by were reflecting their headlights on our nakedness and that too was very sexy. We fucked for about fifteen minutes and I came hard around his penis. This made him happy, he kissed me then shot his load on the ground.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt very good and rebellious. We went back to the club and found everyone searching for us. I suspected that someone had seen us. I saw the guy the next day at our house (apparently he’s a friend of the family) and I still see him. He wants us to do more than sex but I’m not interested. I liked him in the heat of the moment
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I finally got to check off one thing in my fetish list which is public sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He wants a relationship, I don’t.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I realized that I’m quite daring
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great platform to share.
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