Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Office Administration
Relationship status: Unattached
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Its been close to a 100 different partners. I was mostly monogamous during my 4 year marriage.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-Night Stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? There were 3 guys that I had not known before that particular night. I was 23 at the time and all 3 were at least 2 years younger than me. There names have blurred with time, but each was physically attractive. I would not venture to say that I would call any of them as ones who would draw a great deal of attention, but definitely attractive enough to draw the interest of a 23 year old divorcee who had not been “active” for close to a year.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was only in this particular bar at the prompting of a friend who suggested online dating. She was concerned about my lethargy after my divorce, so she signed me up and even answered a few for me. The first 2 ended in them cancelling (chickening out we surmised). Number 3 held promise and we were to meet at a sports bar type place near a local college. I would say that the primary instigators were the guys, though I would say that I was a provocateur. I guess the primary instigation happened when I first sat at the bar and received a text informing me that my “date” was sorry, but that he had to cancel.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well, I was going to leave right then, but the guys next to me, who were there to watch some game on the big screens, engaged me in conversation when they surmised my disappointment. They were joined by another and kept offering to pay for my drinks. At the time I was drinking Long Island ice teas, but they were underage and not hand stamped for alcohol. I was kind of oblivious to this, but they weren’t and began to get all touchy feely with me. Casual, but highly inciting. I would feel hands up my skirt, or sneaking in from the side on my strapped dress. At first I was subtly defending such advances, but as it went on I was getting turned on and began to touch them more. It was around midnight and I thanked them for the wonderful time. I got up to leave and weaved a path to the back exit into the parking lot. The cool air outside revived me some and I walked over to my car. Just before I got there I heard a voice call out to me and when I turned around I saw my 3 friends. They offered to drive me home if I felt I was to drunk, but I was the typical drunk and said that I was fine. They had formed a semi-circle around me and things had gotten quiet. One of the guys moved forward and began kissing me. I mean kissing like he was turned so on. I totally began to lose it as one of the others stared to feel up under the cups on my dress pushing them aside to run across my nipples. Other hands reached under my dress. I ended up giving blowjobs to all 3, and then each did me from behind while I continued to give head, I felt so slutty, but it was exciting! The guys were somewhat insistent, but not overly rough and most of the talk got real dirty calling me names through it all. Through the course of it they came in my mouth, inside of me and one of them came on my hair. It ended with them leaving and me driving home.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I had several orgasms. Two of the guys came twice and one came three times.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was (currently) on the pill. I have no STI’s and have no history. It was without protection.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had no reasons at the time. But it did open me up to more adventurous sex from that point on.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol for me. Five Long Island ice teas.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards, nothing. I have not even seen them again, even though I have gone to the bar again. I don’t have any contact information.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best girlfriend only. And now all of you! 🙂 She was surprised and a little concerned that I could have been harmed. But it also was a bit of a turn on for her when we talked about it.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was not consensual initially, but my body wanted it. My partners definitely consented.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has changed my thinking. I am more adventurous and not looking for a relationship, but more casual opportunity in my sex life. The worst is that I didn’t do this earlier.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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