What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Innovation specialist
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Reconnecting with a Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? David is a white male, 25 yrs. Old and about 5′ 11″ with a really great body. Muscly and thick, with blue eyes and blonde hair. We were friends in highschool and back then the sexual tension between us was very thick but I was seeing someone then. I didn’t really like him much back then but his body was really great, I’d sometimes daydream about him pinning me down with those arms…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We reconnected recently but before that hadn’t talked in a very long time. Before we would hang out all the time. Doing stuff like playing videogames and watching movies, drinking and stuff like that. So when we ended up being in the same area, I reached out to him and we agreed to meet for drinks.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Later the next week, we met up for drinks again. After partying, I decided to stay at his place. We went into his bedroom and closed the door. We were making out and I was getting wetter and wetter. I rubbed his dick while underneath him and could feel how hard he was getting. He started rubbing his erection into my tingling pussy and we did that for a bit while still making out. I don’t think my daydreaming did him any justice. Being under his rippling body was amazing. He moved so he was beside me and took my pants off and started trailing his finger along my panty line, each time getting closer and closer to my slit. At this point my panties were sopping wet and each time he’d get closer, I’d jolt reflexively from the anticipation. Finally, after feeling like I was being tortured for an eternity, he slipped his fingers in and I gasped from the relief. He started with just one finger, moving it around in a circular motion and in and out. Being super gentle and teasing me. I was rearing to go and grabbed his hand and started gyrating my hips into his hand. He chuckled and when I finished, put two fingers in to open me up a bit more (I’m a tiny girl). He picked me up so that I was on top of him and grinded his erection into me. At this point I was fully naked and he wasn’t just yet. I took his clothes off and started rubbing his dick in my wet slit. I loved the feeling of his head rubbing in between my lips. He grabbed my hips and started grinding his dick on my pussy. All while we were kissing. He started pulling me up toward his face and I was a bit surprised as he planted his face in my pussy and started sucking and licking. It felt so good to have his warm tongue fucking me and playing with my clit. I was gyrating my hips and loved the cold wall on my nipples. I looked down and saw that he was really enjoying how turned on he was making me and that made me even more horny. I went back down after I was aching for his dick to be inside me. I rubbed it across my slit a couple more time’s and the first thrust is always the hardest to get in so I eased myself onto his throbbing dick and moaned from how full I felt as he let out an aubidle “oooh” He started rocking me back and forth on his dick, grabbing my butt as a handle, and I was so very wet it was like a waterfall (I have squirted before so I thought it was normal but usually I don’t get this wet). We rocked for awhile and changed to missionary. It’s not my favorite but when he put my legs over his shoulders, he went sooo deep. I grabbed his toned ass, digging my nails into his back and came. He flipped me over and raised my butt in the air and thrust so deep into me, I was starting to fall onto the bed. I was still wet from cumming earlier and used my juices to make my clit all slippery and started rubbing furiously to try to get that third O. I came and it was so strong, I felt my pussy contracting around his dick. We went for awhile after that and didn’t even notice the sun was coming up. He told me he had whiskey dick except it stays hard but he can’t finish. So we stopped after my third even though I could probably stay wet all night, we were tired from the partying and drinking earlier and fell asleep really quick. Then in the morning, he woke me up with kissing and the damn panty line teasing again, so I hopped on his dick and rode him til he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that he made me breakfast which was suuuper sweet <3 I felt like it was a lot of fun, I was a little disheartened by him not orgasming the night before but he made up for it the next morning. Also, this whole whiskey dick thing is a bummer but I get it. We are still hooking up about once or twice a week and I party with him and his friends on the weekends. I prefer it this way since I’m not looking for anything serious but I still really like him and genuinely care about him as a friend.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to some of my friends, they were just like oh you~ and asked me about it. We had some chuckles here and there since they also know him and knew he used to have a crush on me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally having sex with this guy after having sexual tensions for a couple years, losing touch, and then reconnecting. It feels like I get a friend back plus some sexy times. Oh and the bacon in the morning.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He couldn’t come cuz too much alcohol but he made up for it later.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’ve always been pretty open to casual sex. I was in a long term relationship a couple months back and felt pretty inhibited. Now im hoping with this hookup I can really begin to explore other aspects of my sexuality.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Props to guys who give good head, bless all of you

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex should be accepted more. I’ve been shamed for having casual sex by friends and that just sucks. We are all sexual beings so let’s not judge other people for their sexual needs or decisions.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This place is awesome!!! Will definitely be posting more stuff I’m the future.

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