What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? keen as mustard
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? quite a few
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mila is very attractive, I think she is a model. She is very fit looking and toned, with a lovely smile, big eyes. She looks sort of North African.
I responded to her ad on the internet that said something like ’24-year-old, size 10, exotic, DTF.’ $300. I had to google DTF. Anyway, luckily she picked me and then sent me some photos to confirm the offer and I readily accepted and arranged to meet. We met in her city of Brisbane, it was cold and wet. She wore a coat and jumper, and I could tell she was gorgeous before she took her clothes off. I stammered in the lift because she was so attractive.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She got naked and proved how hot she really is. From memory, I truthfully complemented her, but she seemed a bit distant. I asked her if she was on drugs, which I instantly regretted doing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She sucked my cock and seemed to like it. She was quite good at it too, and I returned the favor. We then fucked doggy style. I thought I’d be able to last longer if I couldn’t see her gorgeous face…I was wrong. I think I lasted just about a minute. We then tried again to get me hard, but I pulled the pin as I didn’t want her to finish on a low note of trying to harden a flaccid cock.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She left. Since then we’ve met about 5 more times and each time we do it gets better and better. She also now only charges me $200 for a session and seems fairly unconcerned about the time. I can now last much longer and we have even started to kiss too. She doesn’t seem to mind that I send her text messages occasionally and she sends me hot pics of herself. She’s since told me she’s 22 (which means she would have been 19 or 20 when we met). I hope she and I continue to meet up. We last met in Sydney and I had a great time and I think she did too. I’ve now worked out she’s intelligent and fun as well as smoking hot. She fills a void in my life and I’m very pleased she does. I hope she spends the cash I give her to increase her happiness. I fantasize about her and taking her overseas for a secret holiday. The transactional nature of our meetings is good because it keeps it real and ensures my brain is grounded.
We are meeting again soon. She told me she would show me how to make her come and I can’t wait I’m quite happy having vanilla fun with such a hottie, but am also open to experimenting too. Its up to her really, but i might buy some gifts to see if she likes them; a little vibrator and some cuffs perhaps.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only told my mate. He and I swap stories on occasions, and he wants to meet her.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How hot and casual she is and how each time it gets more intimate and pleasurable. I now believe she is genuinely enjoying herself too.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? it always ends!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? it hasn’t.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Did I mention she’s hot?
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People should be broadly free to do what they want.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s more fun than the newspaper on the way to work.
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