What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Banking
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 270
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several
How long ago did this hookup happen? Around 8 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a friend of a friend at university, and our mutual friend introduced us in a club on a night out as he said she’d seen me with him and thought I was attractive. She was petite, with pale skin and red hair.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We got chatting in the club and found we shared a lot of the same taste in music, movies and TV shows. We soon started dancing together and from there it wasn’t very long before we were making out. I asked if she wanted to get out of there and she said yes and suggested we go back to her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Back at her place, we went straight to her room and sat on her bed making out. She started stroking my cock through my jeans and I ran my hand up her thigh and under her skirt and touched her pussy through her panties and felt her start to get wet. We undressed each other and I lay back on the bed and she took my cock in her mouth. As she blew me, I had her position her body so that we were in the 69 position and I could go down on her too and she started getting more vigorous with my cock as I found her clit with my tongue.
After that, I stayed where I was as she put a condom on me and repositioned herself to start riding me. I played with her small but perfectly formed breasts until she asked me to work her clit again with my fingers. She rode me harder and harder and moaned louder and louder the more I fingered her, and pretty soon she came. At that point, I started thrusting up into her hard to make myself come shortly afterwards. We lay there kissing for a while and fell asleep with her still lying on top of me.
When we woke up in the morning, I felt her naked body against mine and was immediately hard again. We kissed and I soon guided her hand down to my cock and had her play with it. Then I rolled her over so that we were spooning, reached round, spread her legs apart a little and fingered her clit, and didn’t stop until she came. She slipped out of bed to rummage in a draw for another condom, and I followed. I took the condom from her and put it on, whilst telling her to get on all fours on the floor, then got on my knees and got my cock into her from behind. I grabbed her perfect little arse cheeks as I thrusted into her and she moaned as I pretty quickly started fucking her hard to make myself come inside her again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed and had some breakfast together and chatted a bit more. We exchanged numbers and agreed we should hook up again soon. We kept hooking up regularly for some time, as we got on really well and the sex was fantastic. Eventually, it became clear that she wanted a relationship, whereas I was hooking up with other girls too and just wanted to be ‘friends with benefits’, and so at that point I put a stop to the hook ups and we became just friends. I still see her occasionally, but we still don’t hook up anymore.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Our mutual friend worked up what had happened and quizzed us both about it and she told him quite a lot of the details of what we’d done together, including telling him that she didn’t usually enjoy being fucked from behind but that she had loved it with me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We had a lot in common, a lot of chemistry and very hot sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing, although the situation that arose later on when she wanted a relationship but I didn’t was difficult and painful to resolve.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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