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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? teacher, author
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 42
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Redhead in Moscow

How long ago did this hookup happen? December

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a redhead, very beautiful, very slim, perfect-size breasts, tight body.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had met online, and exchanged some emails and handwritten letters and had agreed to meet in real life. I think I suggested that we meet.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first day, nothing happened. We walked through the city, enjoyed the sights. The second evening, she put her head on my chest on the subway. Later she asked me if she should come to my bed to exchange massages. We did that, rubbing each other with lots of lotion.

Then she asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. I suggested we wash off the lotion because the fats in it can dissolve condoms. So we did that first. Then we kissed, I licked her for a while, and she sucked my dick, and then she sat on me and rode me wildly, moaning beautifully. We changed to doggie, and at one point, she dropped flat onto the bed with a loud scream. I came down and finished in that position.

Later, and the next days, we did missionary, a lot of kissing, me licking her pussy, her sucking me off. She was hot and wild every the time. We parted ways after 5 days.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We stayed in contact, I visited her hometown in February. There she was less passionate, but it still went on nicely.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a few friends. In my circles, a hookup is not a big deal, so nobody really cared.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was beautiful, hot and passionate and made me feel great.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? More people should do it and it should become a completely natural thing

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I hope it encourages more people

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