by Rohan

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: Indian
Current location: Tucson
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: none
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Relationship Backwards

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two days ago

How would you best classify this hookup? One and Done

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Handsome, tall and blonde. Blue eyes, killer smile, great hair, great body. Imagine a stereotypical high school football player, star athlete.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at a frat party with my friend and she’d found a guys to make out with, so the two of us started talking and we found a lot of things to talk about, we had a lot in common. We had been drinking a bit, I was very close to drunk and he was tipsy. He casually touched me a lot, eventually put his arm around me, etc. When my friend and her guy went into his room, we talked more and started to kiss, kissing led to touching, touching led to him asking if I wanted somewhere private. I agreed, feeling very in the moment. We headed back to his place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He removed my clothing, performed oral and I reciprocated, and we proceeded to have vaginal sex. We did a slew of different positions, it lasted for a good hour or so, and we were both happy afterwards. We laid together for a little while, talking. Very good lover.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Neither of us had an orgasm, I’m going to blame it on the alcohol.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Birth control, depo provera shot.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? No reason, just because we were both drunk and interested in each other.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol, a mild to heavy amount.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? A little out of order, but he asked if I’d like to go out with him. I said yes. I hope to have a relationship with him, maybe light, maybe serious.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommates and best friend. They were all amazed and are convinced I’m ‘dating’ the hottest guy on campus.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, it was 100% consensual on both ends.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I don’t. Even if it goes nowhere, it was good.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was that we laughed a lot and he made me feel completely comfortable. The worst thing is that we were both drunk so neither of us orgasmed. This hookup has not changed my opinion on casual sex, but it did help me with my slight fear of being intimate.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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