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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40s
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Washington, DC
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Financial Services
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 20

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A friend sent a joke on a group email and Shelly hit reply to all with a flirty comment. I replied to her and after a lot of back and forth on email (not reply to all), we decided to talk on the phone. It turns out I’d met her before when I was back home over break, but only briefly. I was headed home that weekend and she lived on the way, so I made a stop to see her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I met her at her place and we’d planned to stay in. We both instigated it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Shelly was thick with a big ass, shapely legs, and average sized breasts. She was pretty aggressive sexually and just liked getting off. She was into casual sex in a big way. She was an extremely intelligent brunette. We went at it from dusk till dawn, took a short nap, then breakfast, back to her place for a “goodbye fuck” and I was back on the road.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both had fun, but aside from enjoying sex, we didn’t have that much in common. I never saw her again, though we talked a few times on the phone.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fun time with a girl who had a great ass!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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