What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Ireland
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Experimental
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was quite a tall guy, very well built, and slightly intimidating. I didn’t know him that well at all, but we did make out and do other low key stuff when we were teenagers. I was at a house party with my boyfriend and friends when I saw him again.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was actively trying to avoid him for the whole night and tried to have a good time, which I did. A good bit of time went by and I hadn’t seen him for ages, so I thought he’d left. So I went to pee. The bathrooms were occupied, so I decided to pee like a classy girl in the back of the garden. It was dimly lit, so nobody could see me. I squatted down, pulled down my thong, and just let it out. I walked back toward the house, and he walked out and got a surprise when he saw me. We hugged, he looked at me lustfully, and he told me that the past few years had been kind to my body. I laughed it off. He said while looking at my on view boobs, “You’ve definitely grown a lot.” I flirted back saying that he was also still good looking. His arms were the size of my legs. We chatted for a while and flirted harmlessly, and I hadn’t seen my boyfriend in ages. So we went to the back of the garden and sat down. There was a couch area behind the shed out of view, and we went to just to have a better conversation away from the party. The flirting intensified so much so that he had his hand on my upper thigh. I could tell he had one thing on his mind, and to be honest, I did too. I felt really disgusted at this thought because my boyfriend was so close by. But I simply couldn’t resist. He wanted to fuck me, and I was going to let him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I threw a leg either side of him and sat myself up on his crotch. I grabbed his face and kissed him aggressively. He pulled my little dress up over my ass exposing my thong to the garden. Nobody was around and nobody could hear us. I pulled off the dress and exposed my tits to him because I wasn’t wearing a bra. He buried his head in them and sucked the life out of my nipples, making them rock hard. I sat up a little, and my pussy was so wet that I left a stain on his crotch. He didn’t care. He unhooked his belt and pulled down his jeans. He was so hard, so I got down on my knees and sucked and spat on it like a little slut, treatment even my boyfriend doesn’t get. He pulled me up onto the couch and placed me on all fours and pulled my thong off. I knew what was about to happen, and in one big shove, he forced his cock into my pussy. We were shocked that nobody had come to look for us, so he fucked me hard and quick for what felt like hours. I was in heaven, moaning, and calling his name while he continued to fill me with his dick. He pulled out and then spat all over my ass started eating my ass out, something that my boyfriend never does and my God it was amazing. He got up and asked if he could fuck my ass, and usually I’d say no, but he was so hot, and I wanted him to enjoy my body as much as he could. He fingered my ass, making it loose enough for his dick. He pushed the head in slowly, and as it entered, my body groaned. He fucked me slowly at first, and then he built up speed until he was fucking the shit out of me. I felt like such a slut, and I was loving it. He was so close to cumming, and I didn’t want to ruin the fun, so I told him to cum in my vagina. He pulled it out of my ass and shoved it back into my pussy. He went as fast as he could for 30 seconds, and he jolted forward as I felt his hot cum cover the walls of my pussy and drip out onto the grass. He made a mess on himself with the cum, so I licked it all off him. We put our clothes back on, and he walked away, leaving me there. I texted my boyfriend that I was outside. I could feel his cum dripping down my leg. My boyfriend brought me back inside and we danced, oblivious to the fact that I’d just been pumped by another man. I felt slutty and amazing, and I’d do it again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How he made me feel sexually. I was so satisfied.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I cheated on my boyfriend.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I thought before that casual sex was just not for me, but it opened my eyes that spontaneity is so hot
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? A few days later I added him on snapchat, and we exchanged nude pics and have been doing so since.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’d like to try it more often.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its amazing love hearing all the stories.
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