What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Insurance
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is 5’6″ blonde (dyed) green eyes. But over weight. We have been friends for about 5 years. My wife and I have been friends with her and her husband for 5 or so years. We have done things as couples. I had never really thought of her in a sexual way.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In February she ran out of gas and was stranded on her way to work. Her husband was out of town and called me. I took her some gas. She was overly greatful and said she owed me. I jokingly said you can give me a blow job sometime. Nothing more was ever said about it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got a text that she was going to stop by and pick up some things my wife had for her. She stopped we talked and nothing seemed unusual, I was actually trying to get her to leave so I could get a few things done around the house. She said I suppose this is as good of time as any to give you that blow job I owe you. Kind of shocked I responded with an “ok”. I walked over took my pants off and sat next to her on the couch. She kneeled between my legs and licked and kissed my cock until I was hard. I love the sensation of a new partner. She was very attentive to me, kissed the tip, licked my balls, made eye contact, even talked dirty. Told me things guys like to hear, you have a nice cock, cum in my mouth. Things happened so quick, but I was enjoying every minute. After I finished she sat on the couch, and talked some more.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The blow job was amazing, but don’t find her attractive. We are and will remain friends I don’t see that changing.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got an unexpected blow job from a new partner in the middle of the day.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I really don’t find her attractive
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is wonderful for the right people.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is wonderful. I love it
You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!