What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 51
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? CPA
What’s your current relationship status? Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I enjoy sex
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? A few days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Markie and I were lovers for over 4 years until about 6 years ago when we broke it up and he moved away. He is tall, 6 foot 3 inches, and his dick is literally 7 1/2 to 8 inches long depending on how hard he is. More importantly, he knows how to use it. Markie has brown hair, blue eyes, and like me, grew up in a farming community. I have always been attracted to him and it paid off with a 4-year affair. The sex was great but he fell in love with me, and I’ll admit I loved him but he wanted me to leave my husband and family and I wouldn’t do that without a reason. For over 3 years we didn’t use any methods of contraception and I had agreed that if he could get me pregnant I would leave my family to start a new one. It never came to that. Finally, Markie asked me to leave my family for him and I couldn’t. So we ended our relationship and I gave up hope of ever seeing him again.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At work Monday afternoon I got a call on my phone from Markie. Apparently, he was in town visiting friends and family and checking on a rental property he owns here. He wanted to know if we could go to lunch on Tuesday to which I said of course. I took the afternoon off just in case we were going to have sex.
At lunch, we caught up and I found out he was divorced now, his wife had found out about our affair and others. She couldn’t handle that he was in love with another woman so it ended their marriage. Markie asked if I had started sleeping with my husband again and I was honest. “No, I jerk him off and I give him blow jobs but I use my bad low back as an excuse not to screw him. No one can compare to you”, I told him. He asked me to come back to his hotel with him and I gladly obliged and we walked to his car, hand in hand.
I followed Markie to the Hyatt he was staying in and we parked. In the elevator, we looked at each other and I kissed him, my tongue darting hungrily into his mouth, his was answering mine. When we got to his room, he threw his keys on a table and instantly we were in each other’s arms, making out and our hands flowing over each other’s bodies. I could feel his hard dick rub my upper thigh and I was so hot, wet and ready for him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We took our time undressing each other. I stroked his dick and felt how hard and big it was. It turned me on more as I worked my way down his torso. I took my tongue and licked all around his penis. For five minutes I blew him until I eventually stopped and worked my way back up his torso to his mouth. Markie eagerly began to make out with me as my right hand was stroking his dick and rubbed it up along my puss. Finally, we made it to the bed.
Slowly I guided him completely in and then about halfway out of my vagina. Markie was playing with my boobs as he always does when I am on top and I now bent down and french kissed him passionately. We screwed like this for the next five minutes and then I leaned forward and really starting thrusting hard and fast on his dick. I could feel his cock swell as his cum was rising. I slowed and said “Condom?” Markie laughed and said “Fuck me.” and I went back to my rapid pace as I could feel my orgasms rising in me. His dick was rubbing both my clit and my g-spot and I knew I would explode soon. A few minutes later, I let it happen and I screamed out as I felt multiple orgasms flow through my body. I fell on top of Markie as he shot his cum deep inside of me.
Afterward, we cuddled, kissed and talked until eventually, Markie took position over me and we had sex in missionary position. I had given him another blowjob to get him hard and I was playing with my clit. I am generally not one to masturbate but I change with him.
I brought my legs up to the side of his hips and ass and rubbed my feet on his hips and ass as he entered and withdrew. Soon, his dick did its job and I started screaming as my orgasm took over my body. Markie thrust hard and deep, I could feel his dick all the way in me and he moaned as he ejaculated in me. Again, the initial explosion then another smaller and another and each time Markie thrust and as he came in me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I came back for lunch and we made love again for an hour. He told me he wanted to pick up our affair with no commitments or conditions, just to make love once or twice a week. We agreed to begin to meet at his house once a week starting next week and I can’t wait.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I am post menopause so no pregnancy will happen. I only have sex with my husband or Markie, who are faithful to me.
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Power / Dominance, Simply I wanted this particular man to make love to me over and over.
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Markie’s dick is the best thing
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Making sure Markie knows he isn’t going to get me to leave my family. My husband and kids are the emotional bonds that mean the most to me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love my husband but he cannot fulfill me so I found a man willing to do so, that loves me and enjoys being my sexual partner and accepts his role. Wonderful spot to be in as a woman in the 21st century!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting.
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