What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Marketing
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Revenge Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last year

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall handsome Caucasian man. He was very distinguished looking. I love a man in a suit and he was perfect.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My husband travels a lot for business so I am used to him being gone. Usually, when he is gone (once a month or so), I like to take care of things around the house. Shopping, cleaning etc. One night, he went to sleep early since he was going away the next day and his phone went off. I never bother with his phone but there was a text on it from some girl who he was going to obviously meet when he was away. I was furious but figured it would be great to get back at him for that.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He left early in the morning on a Thursday for his meeting and would be back early Sunday so I was all alone for a couple of days.

Friday, after work, I went shopping for the sluttiest dress I could find. I’m in great shape and work out regularly so I’m used to men half my age flirting with me. I like to dress sexy but this dress was pretty much like nothing I’d ever worn in public. I bought a pair of crotchless fishnet stockings to go with it and a pair of sky-high stiletto heels to match.

I was planning on going out Friday but thought Saturday would be better since my husband would be home early Sunday. Saturday came and I started getting ready. Whipped out my hair, way overdid it on the makeup, bright red lipstick, and tons of perfume. I drive to a hotel close to my home with a hopping bar that has live bands and dancing. It’s always crowded there on the weekends so I knew I’d be able to find someone to have sex with.

It didn’t take long before I spotted my “date” for the evening. I smiled from across the bar and sent him a drink. I wasn’t going to wait for him to make a move! Of course, he came right over and thanked me. Small talk revealed he was there on a business trip and had a girlfriend back home. He asked me what I was doing there and I told him “Looking to have sex”! He had quite the expression on his face after that!

We went to his room and on the way up he mentioned that he was a little on the larger side and was that ok. I told him that I’m not a size queen but do like the feel and if he could go multiple rounds that would be even better. He assured me that was not an issue.

When we got to the room, I sat him in the chair and undid his belt. He wasn’t lying as this was the biggest cock I had ever seen in person. Probably 9″ and very thick. I did my best to give him a great blowjob but he was too large to get fully in my mouth. I don’t have a gag reflex but my mouth is somewhat small so I pulled my dress up a bit and straddled him. It felt great and I was completely filled up! I rode him fast and hard and was soaking wet, dripping all over him. Eventually, he came and I felt waves of his cum deep in me. When I got off him, it was dripping out of me!

I pulled my dress down and we had a drink to chat a little more between rounds. He did ask me why I didn’t take my dress off or clean up afterward. I explained what had happened with my husband and that I wanted him to find me a sticky mess when he got home as my revenge.

He looked at me a little weird and I told him not to worry as we aren’t going to keep in touch after tonight, but this evening serves MY purpose. At this time, I started rubbing him again and he was ready for round two. I wanted him from behind so I gave him my best “pornstar” look and bent over the bed and he entered me from behind. I told him I wanted it hard and fast and to fill me up again which he did.

My pussy was sufficiently filled and I was a little sore. I gave him a nice long kiss, thanked him and went to get my car. As I was walking to valet, I could feel the cum running down my legs.

When I got home, I debated whether or not to shower or go through with my plan. Ultimately, I decided to take off the cum stained dress and hose, but leave them on the closet floor.

My husband came home the next morning and it was obvious I smelled of sex. He was beyond pissed off, but at that time I mentioned I knew what he did and the text in his phone proved it. I said I just did what you did. I think this turned him on because he ripped off his clothes and he was hard as steel. He just went right on me and I think knowing my sloppy pussy was lubricated with another man’s cum turned him on even more. He filled me up instantly and after this, I decided it was probably time to clean up.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My husband and I talked at great length and he confided in me this has been a fantasy of his for a long time. We have played this same scenario over again a few times and we both love it. It makes our sex even hotter.

Sometimes, we will go out and I’ll “pick up” a guy I’m interested in. It’s very hot to be sandwiched between two guys who are focused on me.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, Revenge / Getting even

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only my husband

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The hot sex we have now. It has improved our sex life

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing really

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I know I’m very desirable to other men so that’s a great ego boost.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I am glad I experienced it but would never do it again (alone) because bad things can happen. In this case, I chose wisely and things worked out well.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? For females, it can be empowering.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great. I love it.

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