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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very good in bed from what I’ve been told
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Revenge/Cheating Fuck

How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The girl in question was named A., and she had a boyfriend named Anthony, who was my friend and how I met her. Now me and Anthony had known each other for years, and were decent friends. We all hung out together in groups and with various people, and I eventually got to know A. pretty well. She was a tiny petite brunette, just barely legal. She had a fat ass and some small perky titties, with very beautiful blue eyes. I always thought she was hot, but we never had any inappropriate contact and I just treated her like any other girl and we were decent friends.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A few years before this incident, I had broken up with my first real girlfriend. And that’s when I happened to run into Anthony around town and we started hanging out. Well he told me that he had recently been through a break up too, so I had thought we were two bros just sharing some hard times and what not with each other. Well I eventually found out that he had tried to hook up with the girl I just broke up with but she shut him down. I never told him I found out and even let it pass, but never forgot it. Well eventually A. and Anthony started having big problems in their relationship, and I had moved to a different city for college so we all lost touch a bit with each other. I also started dating another girl, whom I have now come to love, but felt rushed into the relationship at the time. Anthony ironically deleted me off her Facebook and she noticed and asked me why I deleted her thinking I did it, which just got us talking, and thinking about her and the vibes I was getting gave me ideas. And I ended up telling her about how her boyfriend had tried to hook up with my ex, and how I had for a time wished I tried to get with her, which she completely returned the notion, saying she wished I did get with her, confirming a few “strange” alone moments we had with each other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Like I said, I had started dating another girl, and was feeling guilty as hell. But something about this girl was just completely overwhelming, and I knew I had to fuck her. We texted and talked very sexually with each other for days and planned to sleep together the next weekend I was in town. To avoid a problem with my gf coming by my house, I rented a hotel room in the next town over which I brought her to. I had bought us some alcohol and it just started off with us hanging out on the bed drinking and talking. She would constantly say I can’t believe we’re here doing this now. And we would both just smile and laugh. After a few drinks, I started feeling on her and leaned over and started making out with her. Then I slowly put my hands down her legs and then started rubbing her pussy, feeling her jerk as soon as I did. Then I proceeded to take her pants off and my clothes, then I went to get a condom from my pants, and she asked me to please not use one. So I just got on top of her missionary and put my dick all the way inside her. I fucked her like this for about 30 minutes, enjoying every second of her hot tight wet pussy. Then I let her get on top of me, and she rode my dick like it’s never been ridden before, hearing her little moan every time she sat all the way down on my cock. Then I bent her over and fucked her doggystyle until I came all over her ass. It was some of the best sex I ever had. Then she started sucking my dick after we had a few minutes to rest and I started pounding her from the back again and busted all over her. We just laid there the rest of the night talking about life, exes, etc. just like two people who could talk about anything without judgement. Then we spooned and slept together until the next morning.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Next day was fine. We actually were really good. She ended up getting back with her bf, so we stopped talking for like a month. Then they broke up and we fucked again. My gf and I had also broken up by then, so I fucked her this time at my house. Things went good then got a little bumpy when her cousin (whom I also fucked) made a bet with her without me knowing to call me and see if I would fuck her right now, which I said I would because what guy wouldn’t want to fuck a girl who just called them up for that? This chick was also fucking other guys after this point, kind of because of her break up, so why should I only stay with one girl? But for some reason this pissed her off. She told a twisted story to the girl I was dating because her cousin told her some bullshit about how I was fucking her at the same time, too, which I wasn’t. But she told my gf we fucked like 3 times after we broke up. Which was true, but we fucked while I was still dating her, too. I felt extremely guilty for weeks, she was mad and quit talking to me, me and the gf I cheated on got back together and now I truly appreciate her and have apologized for everything. Me and A. never talk anymore, she made a few attempts, getting other people to call and getting me to come over to a party or something, but we haven’t seen each other since.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Revenge / Getting even

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends, they laughed and said good for me. Anthony shouldn’t have tried to do me dirty first.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Just the fact that I cheated, and ruined some friendships, which may have not been worth it anyway.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The great and hot sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My gf finding out about most of it, excluding that I actually cheated while we were together. Anthony trying to fight me and tear up my yard.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I used to regret not having sex with more girls before settling down, but I feel as if with every whore and slutty girl I fuck, when I found the girl, my gf, who treated me better than any other girl ever had, I took advantage of it and just lusted for more new pussy.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? One of the best hook ups I ever had for sure, should have just kept it a fuck buddy’s only if anything! Feelings fucked it up too.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I always want to fuck other women. I really wish I could talk my gf into a threesome, but I don’t think she would go for it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Not sure yet.

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