by Big Dog

Gender: Male
Age: 56
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Arizona
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Driver
Religious affiliation: Spiritual
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 30+ yrs

How would you best classify this hookup? FWB

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mary was a short, white girl, with red hair. She and I were stationed in Texas, on an Air Force base, except we were in the Army. We had never hooked up before. I thought Mary was a plain, yet cute, girl. She was very friendly, and it was obvious she liked me from her attitude towards me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She needed help moving from off base housing to on base housing. She had a daughter, who was just 2 or 3 years old, at the time. When she asked for help, she told me that she would “reward me very nicely” after we were done. I hoped that she meant sex, since she gave me that look of, well, you know.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were sweaty and tired (Texas humidity in the summer being what it is). It was late in the evening, around 7-ish. Mary put her daughter to bed for the night. Mary came up to me in her new living room and said something to the effect of, “now for your reward.” She reached up and kissed me very passionately (Mary was about 5’5″, I am 6’0). I reached out and pulled her in tight, and we made out in her living room, no curtains, no coverings. Anybody next door could have been watching. We didn’t care. Soon, all of our sweaty and sticky clothes were off, and we had moved to her bed.

She was quite passionate, squirming and writhing underneath me, making all kinds of gasps and moans. She wanted the intercourse, and I was happy to oblige. I knelt at her vagina, grabbed both her ankles, and “made a wish” with them. My wish was immediately granted, as I plunged inside of her. We made love for a good two hours; in every position we could think of. I got BJs, she got eaten, too. She climaxed several times. I came twice, since I’ve always had problems reaching climax. But I sure as heck have a lot of fun getting there! Mary was a very good lover. There wasn’t too much talk back and forth. Just a lot of naughty talk. I like to tell women what I’m about to do to them as I do it. It builds sensual tension, and is just a lot of sexy fun. When we were finally exhausted, we just laid in each others’ arms, enjoying the moment, letting the good feelings wash over us.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? It all happened so fast, no precautions were discussed. Later, Mary told me that she was on the Pill (Whew!)

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were both just looking for sexual release, and attention. I’m sure that Mary took as much pleasure from our physical acts as I did, judging from her satisfied noises.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Since we both were in the Army, drugs were not EVEN a thought. Neither of us cared for alcohol (I throw up after just a few sips, I hate it that much.)

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were still friends, and became fuck buddies. We had several more “sessions” at her place, since I lived in the barracks, and sex there was out of the question.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Not even my current wife.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Definitely consensual on both our parts. We had feelings for each other prior to this. We just hadn’t acted upon them.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Definitely NOT.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The worst thing about this hookup is that I was a terrible cad in the end. I received orders to ship out to my permanent unit, and I failed to tell her. I just packed up and left. I had some feelings for her, but not enough to get engaged or married. I hope she felt the same way, too…I have lived with these regrettable feelings for a long time. I never treated another woman that way, ever again. Mary, if by some miracle you read this, mea culpa. I’m so sorry that I caused you any pain. I wish that I could tell you this in person. I would deserve whatever brickbats you might fling my way…

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Though I successfully honed my sexual “moves” with Mary, “moves” that I still use very successfully to this very day, I failed at being a gentleman, and basically as a human being, leaving without a word of goodbye. Mary shielded her daughter from all of her boyfriends, hoping to prevent her from being damaged. Good thing, in my case, unfortunately.

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