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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? U.S
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Aviation
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? A few

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, handsome, around 6′ tall. He has silver hair, a stubble beard, and amazing hazel eyes and is the sweetest man I have ever met. He is in his mid-40s. We have a thing going on and he is a co-worker of mine and we felt instantly connected since we met.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was stressed about work, so much had to get done. He started messaging me and I let him know I was really busy. He then said I probably need a good ride to relieve some stress and he can always help me with that. So I agreed because he can definitely make me orgasm along with him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

So we met at one of the usual spots during a break. I climbed into his truck as he smirked and said HELLO once again. I felt nervous yet it felt right. He proceeded to ask if I really wanted to and without thinking twice, I replied with a sincere and enthusiastic YES! He started taking off his clothes and so did I. He then moved towards me and pulled the seat as far back as it could go. I got on top and slowly slid down his cock. No need for lube by now because he had me wet already. I slowly started moving up and down back and forth as I grabbed on to his shoulders with force. Our eyes met and we started kissing as we felt the wetness of my pussy on his AWESOME cock. We kept the rhythm steady. He started to suck on my tits and got lost in them. Sure could treat a woman right. I lost control of everything and for a moment nothing mattered at all. It was just me and him. We kept going at it till we both reached climax. He moaned and I moaned even more. He took the moment to bury his face in between the boobs. We stayed like that for a few minutes, looking at one another and smiling.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We each drove back to work and saw each other throughout the afternoon. He messaged me saying how AWESOME it was and couldn’t wait till next time. I think about him at times outside work but do my best to control my feelings. I don’t think about the future. We both have a life and even though it would be great to marry him, not sure if it would ever happen. Sometimes I wake up at night, thinking about him as if he were thinking about me too.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. He is married and I am in a serious relationship.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The person.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Everything seemed right so nothing bad about it.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I am way more in control of my emotions than I was in the past.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It feels right with him even though he is not mine and I am not his.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s your life. Sex is an AMAZING natural thing and one should not be ashamed of it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? AWESOME!

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