What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Granada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
Riding An Andalusian Man
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I am a French girl half Viet half white. Tall (1m70) brunette, tan, I have a more of an hourglass figure, curvy, small perky boobs but quiet a big butt and wide hips as I love eating haha.
So I was in Spain for an exchange semester and met Rodrigo (not his real name) while he was working as a bartender in a nightclub in Granada: 1m80 slim, brown hair, clean shaven beard with dark eyes and his brows look good haha. He offered my friend and I drinks and we flirted a bit. I thought he was cute and I gave him my number.
We exchanged some messages but It died down as he did not seem eager to see me and I like to be chased -also the language barrier as I did not speak Spanish well.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? 3 months later on my last night in Spain I decided to send him a message as I was eager to get some after spending a night with a French guy which was kinda disappointing. He answered right away and was down to meet me at my flat so we could « say our goodbyes » properly.
I remember feeling so wet and excited thinking about how naughty I was to invite a guy I just met at my house and the very next day after sleeping with the French one. Also I knew somehow I would not regret it. I was right.
So he came late in the night and we started to chat in my bedroom. I had light up a candle so the lightning was really intimate and we talked for an hour getting news of each other, I thought we would do it sooner but we got along so I did not mind.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Finally we started kissing and what shook me is that he really took his time. He was there to really enjoy the night and the sex and not just do it and leave. He took me on his lap and started undressing me, kissing and sucking on my nipples as he did.
He ate me out nicely, I did not come but I was still very excited.
We undressed both and I went on top. I then asked him if he had a condom but he didn’t. I was bummed because I did not have any and was expecting him to have one. I asked him to pull out when he comes and he told me of course. I was stressed about that, he felt it and still pushed him gently on him and I couldn’t resist I was already so excited; so I entered him: As I was tight, we gasped when that happened, it felt so good.
I started riding him, moving and swerving my hips while he held me one hand on my back, the other on my stomach so he could guide me in the rhythm. I came really fast, two times and at some point he stopped to rub my clit which made me totally mad.
He then pushed me on the side, lifted my top leg up and started entering me on the side while holding my leg in the air and the other hand on my hips and stopping to rub my clit occasionally which also made me mad, again.
He then took me fully doggy style, then at some point I was riding him while he was sitting at the edge of the bed it was so damn good and during the whole thing he would whisper to me « Te encantas? » (do you like it? ») to which I would reply almost breathless « si si si ».
I gave him a blowjob and I took my time to suck his balls, then taking my tongue up his shaft, circle around it and alternate between liking the tip of his penis and taking it fully in my mouth with my hand going up and down. He would say « me gusta cuando me tocas » ( I like it when you touch me) which only encouraged me to pleasure him more. I felt so appreciated and so sexy riding him(because I did it again) and I could tell he appreciated feeling me wet inside him.
He took me at the edge of the bed holding my legs and spreading them and then pulled out so I could jerk him off and he came on my chest.
After he ate me out and fingered me and I came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I cleaned up afterwards. We chatted and did it two times after in many more positions (also on the desk). He was such a good lover.
He came at 00.00 and left at 4am I was exhausted and had to leave the city at 8am but I had no regrets I was so satisfied. Best sex I had in a long time.
It was probably because he was older than me (28 and I am 21) that he was so skilled i don’t know …none of the guys I had before (younger- 24 max) had this confidence and this skill. I was impressed and felt dumb waiting 3 months when I could have had this good sex during my whole semester haha.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my friends and told my mom. My friends say it was cool and I should be careful to not give myself easily to someone I have real feelings for. My mom thinks I should enjoy my youth as long as I protect myself.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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