by Grad students hook up

Gender: Male
Age: 30
Race/ethnicity: Hispanix
Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Retail
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One

Rise & Fall Of Lust

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 5’6″ dirty blonde hair, really pretty face, and a nice body. We met in school and she sat right next to me. Before the hook up i didn’t know she liked me… until one day she asked me if I wanted to get something to eat with her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Back story: in our first grad class we became friends because we had the same interests and I thought she was really pretty. One night I was studying and she just got off work. She asks me if I wanna get something to eat. I said yes. We met up, had some sushi and drinks and hung out. She kept rubbing her leg against mine under the table.
After eating I walked her to her car, as we were talking i moved in closer to her to see how she would react. With her against her car, I got close enough to kiss her and went for it. She reciprocated. After a length make out session we stopped because a cop car had parked nearby and she didn’t want to kiss anymore.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The day of the hook up: she came to my house to watch tv, when it was time for her to leave I told her “I don’t want you to go” she looked at me and said “what do you have in mind”
That is when I pushed her against my wall and kissed her hard. She got so turned on she grabbed me and pulled me closer and we started making out hard.
Her body temp must have risen because she took off her sweater, I took off her shirt and bra. While making out I walked her to my bedroom and threw her on my bed. I pushed her back and took her pants off, then her panties off with my teeth. I started to tease her with my tongue until she grabbed my head and pushed me to her clit. I ate her out till she came (she tasted delicious!). Then she took my pants off and started sucking my dick.
I pulled her up and laid her on the bed and said “wait right here” I had to put a Condom on.
When I arrived I saw she was playing with herself, I removed her hand and entered her pussy.
It had been a long time since I last had sex so I did not last very long. After my first orgasm, we laid next to each other. She sucked my dick again and I played with her clit till I was ready again.
The second time I lasted like a GOD. We had sex missionary. Doggy. Cowgirl. I noticed she liked it when I would grab her face and throat so (in missionary) I grabbed her throat and applied pressure. She had a screaming orgasm as I kept thrusting. Her eyes rolled to the back of her head and I loved the view.
I flipped her over and gave it to her in doggy. I noticed. The harder I pulled her hair. The louder she got. So I applied both of what I learned, i alternated from hair pulling and pressure on throat and she orgasmed again. Apparently it was hard enough for her to go dead weight and lifeless, she said don’t stop, so I didn’t.
Putting her on top she mentioned she wanted to stop because she’s never had more than one orgasm with anyone before. I said “let me finish” and she said “ok.”
I told her to finger my ass while riding me and she did. I came shortly after.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I had two, she had three.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Prior to the hookup she said she’s been tested and is clean. I’ve been tested and am also clean.
Before intercourse I put on a condom. After the first ejaculation, I put on the second. (Two condoms total were used)

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? For her, she said she was REALLY attracted to me
For me: 1) im a guy, 2) I thought she was really pretty and I was attracted to her. 3) I hadn’t had sex in a long while

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes I had a beer and she had some sake.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hook up we became closer and started hanging out more. I started to like her more (this was my down fall). Because we’re still in grad school we’re cohorted for the next 2 years in the same classes. I was hoping to pursue a romantic relationship, but because she has a 4-year old son, baby daddy issues broke us apart.
I still find her attractive but it’s hard for me to be friends with her.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my close friends and they were happy for me. One friend commented, “it’s about time. Glad you got it wet”

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? At the time, no. Because we both liked each other and i wanted her.
Looking back, yes: because I developed feelings for her and was not able to pursue them.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best: she is a person that i never would have thought I could get with. This was an amazing feeling for me.
Worst: the separation and the fact that I have to see her for the next 2 years.
A little – somewhat, overall. I still think casual sex is fine if all parties are consenting.
However for me, I don’t think I’d want to try any type of sexual relationship with another class mate.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? After graduation I would like to pursue a romantic relationship, but she has to feel the same way and have the baby daddy issues fully resolved.

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