What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Admin
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? N/A
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 Year Ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on Tinder. He wanted to take me out on a date, and possibly casually date me, but I just wanted to get laid, and eventually, so did he. He’s Ivy League educated, and wanted me to come over and take a little cruise on his boat near his family’s lake, but I wasn’t too interested in that, and ended up showing up way too late, after it got too dark.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I told him exactly what I wanted, and he said he’d be interested in the same. We met up in a parking lot close to his home. I’m assuming he wanted to make sure I matched my online pictures, and when he approved, he told me to follow him. I drove behind him, and he took me down the darkest of back roads. I was a bit worried, but not enough to back out. After what seemed like forever, we arrived at his cozy lake house. We hugged, and he brought in the take-out he promised he’d order for us. When we got inside, the take-out ended up not being as good, and I just wanted to get to it!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He told me that I looked lovely, then asked if I was interested in smoking weed with him. He asked if he could kiss me, and I said yes. It was a quick peck. After we both got high, and with me a little buzzed from the wine, we made our way upstairs to watch tv. We barely got to the room, and we were all over each other. I told him that I didn’t have time to shave after work, and he assured me that he didn’t mind at all. He took my pants off quickly, and his. There wasn’t really any foreplay, as my pussy was already plenty wet. He was rock hard and firmly penetrated my soaking wet pussy, and I heard myself gasp. He fucked me roughly and passionately. I had a spiritual sexual connection with him, and he whispered that he hopes he never stops fucking me. I had several orgasms, and he asked me if he could cum inside of me, to which I happily consented. We fucked all night, and he came inside of me a second time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? When I woke up, I noticed he wasn’t next to me and that he actually slept in another room. I didn’t ask why, and left quickly thereafter. We ended up hooking up a couple more times, but we really weren’t each other’s types and did not stay in touch.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Making new friends, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. There’s nothing to tell. Two single strangers having fun.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both knew it wouldn’t turn into anything, and we both took the opportunity because it presented itself. The sex was awesome!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not having much in common. Don’t get me wrong, hookups are fun, but better when there’s more to be stimulated by.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No. All went as planned.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is awesome if you stay true to yourself.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great forum! I read so many stories, and find most of them appealing.
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