Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a year older, dark brown/black hair, a little husky, about 5’7″. We had met in school before, but didn’t talk until the trip. I hadn’t really known him well, but I was physically drawn to him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were on a class trip to Germany/Austria, and when we first landed we happened to strike up a conversation. That led to sitting together on the bus everyday, hand holding, and him grabbing my ass when no one was looking.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were making out in my hotel room one night and we were planning on Vaginal, but we didn’t have a condom so we 69ed instead. He was absolutely fantastic, and although I didn’t finish, he did and afterwards we just sat there and talked.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He refused to have sex without a condom to insure that I didn’t get pregnant.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? There was this chemistry that made it impossible to say no.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No 🙂
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we got back from the trip we fell out of contact for about 6 months. We started talking again in January 2014 and we’ve had sex twice since then. Although this started as a summer fling, I’ve fallen in love with him (He doesn’t have a clue!) and someday I would hope to be in a relationship with him.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told some of my friends, and the other kids on the trip knew that we had been doing stuff. They were a little surprised because they all have VERY different tastes in men, but I didn’t care. I was proud as shit to have been with him.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, consensual both ways.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, it’s probably the best decision I’ve ever made.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part was that it was with him. I had never really believed in casual hookups before him, and normally I wouldn’t have done stuff with someone I knew that little, but like I said, we had this chemistry that told me that if I didn’t do this, I would regret it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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