by boo

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: Asian
Current location: Australia
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Buddhist
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Role Model

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 day ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I first noticed him at a party a few years ago where he caught my interest but he left before I managed to go talk to him. I was told he was from canberra so I assume he headed back to catch his plane. The first time we officially met was when I started uni in canberra and I asked him to show me around. After that he invited me to dinner which we went for a few times and as i got comfortable we started texting some kinky stuff. I’d only meant to tease him but he went along with it and this sexual tension started to develop. To this day I’m still not entirely attracted to him, rather I view him as a role model: someone I strive to be like. After all he is 8 years my senior, is financially independent aand wears classy suits unlike the boys my age.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We’ve been seeing each other regularly for months and he’s slept at my place a few times. He would feel me up but I wouldn’t let it get any further. Then one night he invited me to his house and I was really excited but I didn’t wanna seem like I was trying so I just wore casual clothes. That night he was able to undress me until I was only in my underwear and we just cuddled till morning. This happened a few times until yesterday. I’d texted him after the most recent sleep over, that I was willing to go all the way. He was worried I’d wanted a relationship and warned me against it. I kind of felt offended and angry but chose to bring up the subject of a fwb relationship. He was happy to go along with it after thinking it over during the weekend. Yesterday he finally responded by asking me to meet him in the city. He wanted to come back to my place but I insisted we go to his and that’s where I ended up hooking up with him for the first time.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got home he wanted to go to bed so I said I would leave so he could get to sleep but he wanted me to stay. I was worried he had too much to drink so I stayed and he immediately pulled me into bed where he proceed to undress me. We started kissing and it was all very playful until I wound up on top. I could feel his excitement and wanted to tease him again but he started fingerings me instead. I didn’t feel turned on so I told him we could go all the way next time but he kept insisting until I relented and he was inside of me. We tried a variety of positions besides the boring missionary, I gave him head and he went down on me and it was overall an interesting experience.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Neither of us orgasmed, him because he was intoxicated and me because I didn’t feel horny or turned on by it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I told him to put on a condom which he had but he didn’t want to. He just replied that he would no make me pregnant so it would be fine.  I then asked if he had any STIs which he claimed he didn’t. I regret not pushing him in this but it was always a fantasy of mine go bare.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was interested in learning and developing my sexual skills. He has told me before that he finds me attractive.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? A lot of alcohol was involved in his part but I’d only had 2 sips of vodka.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I feel conflicted in my desire to go on with this relationship or cut it off as a 1 night stand. I don’t really have anymore expectations besides maybe having an orgasm next time.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Iv told my friend about seeing this guy and she doesn’t like him. She’s worried I’m being used but I feel as though it’s a mutual thing. She has a conservative view on these things so I am worried about telling her I went against her advice.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? This was consensual for both parties although it came as a surprise to me.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I’m worried that I will but at the moment I don’t feel very affected. I would regret it if this has a negative impact on my life.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? There really wasn’t anything too great about this. I guess I’m happy I got some experience from it. My views have been reaffirmed by this experience.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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