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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Designer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Slutty girl
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Roommate Of My BF

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My bf is a commercial photographer and his flatmate, Rajat is too. They stay away from home in a 2 person flat. I met him about 8/10 month before the hookup. He usualy flirts with me when I visit at my boyfriend’s place. Sometime we casually talk about sexual things and all, even in front of my bf. He never minds, and he even sometimes goes to work leaving me and Rajat are all alone in the flat. Rajat has a very well maintained body, and I have a curvy figure with big breasts.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Once, I was in my bf’s flat, and he went for some commercial assignment and would be gone about 3-4 hours. I was wearing a short skirt with a sleeveless top. We were chit chatting, then I lit a cigarette and started to smoke.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Rajat asked me to ‘please pass me the cigarette with the sexy touch of your lips’. It was one of the greatest pickup lines I ever hard. Slowly, I moved towerd him and whispered in his ear saying, ‘if that’s what you want’. He grabbed me, took the cigarette, and had a smoke and brought his lips just in front of mine. We started kissing madly and moved to the bed. He removed his t-shirt and started kissing again. He moved his one hand under my skirt and start touching me. Then, I removed the pants off of him, and gave him a nice blow job. We moved to 69 position and he licked my pussy good. Then I moved into the doggy position, and he started banging my pussy for some time. He fucked me for about 20-30 minutes when suddenly the door bell rang. He ran to his room, I threw on my top and adjusted my skirt without any underwear, and went to open the door.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued the session at night after my bf went to sleep, and the things began to grow between us and move us to a different level. He fucked me muliple times.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I discussed about the physical relationship between me and Rajat with my bf and he give me a clear green signal about it. Now we are having fun together.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fun, pleasure, new variety of sexual test.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. It increases the openness in our relationship and improves our sex life.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I have to share some more things about this three of us, I will come up again with them.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is a good thing, if everyone involved in this is ok with it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great thing. Wish you all the very best.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!