What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Diego
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Real Estate
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was in his 40’s and in good shape. I started running around my neighbor at night a couple times a week to stay in shape for sports in high school. I saw him running almost every night. We’d say hi to each other and continue on our way. One night He came running up along side of me and we ran a couple miles together. Before he broke off, he asked if I wanted to meet him the next day and run with him. I said that I did, so he gave me a time and a street intersection to meet him. We did this for a couple weeks. We made good conversation while running and it was nice to run with someone.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? As the running continued, he asked if I liked to do other forms of exercise. I told him that I liked to lift weights. He said he had a weight set at his house and invited me to come over the next night. Looking back, I thought nothing of it at the time, but he definitely had ulterior motives in inviting me to his house. The next night, I ran to his house which was less than a mile away. He invited me in and led me to a back room in his house where the weights were. He had told me before that he was married, but his that evening his wife was out of town. We lifted weights for awhile and I noticed he kept toughing me and slightly rubbing up against me during the workout. After we finished, I sat down and he stood behind me and started rubbing my shoulders and claimed it would ensure I wasn’t sore the next day. His rubbing felt really good. He moved down my back all the way to my upper glutes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As he touched me he slowly leaned against me and I could feel his muscles press against me and I started to get hard. I was a teenager and his strong but gentle touch made my hormones go crazy. He slowly reached around and massaged my chest, then ran his hands down my stomach below my belly button. I tried to cross my legs and cover myself with my hands so he wouldn’t see my hard dick, but it didn’t work. He ran his hands back up to my chest and kinda of chuckled. He pulled me against him, so my back was pressed against his thighs. I could feel his hard dock pressing against my back. He said, you don’t have to hide it, I’m hard too. I didn’t know what to think, let alone do in this situation. I had never been with another guy, and had only thought about it a little up to that point. He kept rubbing my chest and slowly started pressing his cock against my back. I was frozen as he did this, but my own dick remained hard. Finally, he asked me to swing around so I was facing him. I did and could clearly see his hard dick pressing through his shorts. He knelt down in front of me, and pulled my shorts down. My cock was rock hard now and he began stroking me. Then he leaned down and put me in his mouth. He caressed my balls as he sucked and it felt amazing. He only sucked for a little then stopped and stood up. He pulled his shorts down and his cock sprang free right at my face level. He asked me to touch him, so I reached and and started stroking him. His dick was about the same length as mine, but was thicker, and had a huge upward curve. As I stroked him, I could feel his dick pulsating. I couldn’t believe what in was doing, but was so horny and it felt so good. He then asked me to put it in my mouth. He took a step forward and slowly guided his cock into my mouth. He slowly pumped back and forth as I tried to give him a good blow job. I sucked for a while and he started groaning and pumping more, then he pulled out and shot on my chest. His last rope of cum landed on my dick. He then reached down and grabbed my dick. I only lasted a few strokes, then came on the floor in front of him. Something about feeling his hot cum land on my dick was too much for me to handle.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met for about six months after that, at least once a week. His wife traveled a lot for work so we usually would mess around at his house. I definitely explored all areas of my newly discovered bisexuality with him. Had nearly all my firsts with him: gay kiss, sucking and being sucked, tasting cum, being fucked and fucking him.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. He’s still married and closeted.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Exploring with a patient partner in a safe environment.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It had to stop
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Discovered bisexuality. Have been with 5 other guys since.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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