What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Sat On and Dominated, Again

How long ago did this hookup happen? a few weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? There were several of them. All dominant women. Most of them I didn’t really know, but had seen around. One of them was the same woman who sat on me previously.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This is a follow up to my previous entry (sat on and dominated by a Femdom). After my last experience, I was hesitant and nervous to go out to one of these parties again. The previous time was a little intense and I didn’t know what to expect the 2nd time around. I finally worked up the nerve to start going again. I was excited and nervous at the same time.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was more aggressive than last time. She approached me with the other women and took me to a private room. Once inside, she pushed me down to the floor, Got on top of me, so she was straddling my chest with my arms by my sides, trapped by her thighs. She kept me pinned down like this for about an hour. I struggled occasionally to get free but was unable to (being 5’5 and fairly scrawny, I didn’t really stand much chance against a woman who was 6 feet and heavy).

Afterwards, they decided that they all wanted to have turns sitting on me. There were about 7 women in the group (all varying in different weight and height), and each one of them spent around 15-20 minutes sitting astride my chest, before getting off and another one would take over. My arms and chest were getting quite sore from the pressure imposed upon them, and I wasn’t enjoying it much at this point. I tried again a few times to get free or to at least get my arms loose but to no avail. Some of them were quite vicious and slapped me across the face, or spit on me. One of them leaned down and was licking my face and nose.

It culminated in the first woman sitting back on my chest for another hour, while another woman knelt down behind and encased my head between her thighs. By the time I was finally let go, it had all lasted for over 4 hours. I could barely stand up or walk. I left the nightclub and went home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Physically it was painful, my chest and arms continued to ache for a couple of days following. I don’t know what I expect for the future. I’m scared to go back, it was way more intense then I expected, but the other part of me is excited and wants to go back to see what happens next.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it, To experience the thrill of feeling helpless, sort of like consensual non-consent.

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Some of them were drinking a little, but not all

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t feel like I had any control once it began, which was fairly scary

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I assume they wanted it, because they initiated it, but it was never communicated to me

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? If I had known how far they would take it, I might have declined, or if that didn’t work, tried to escape from them, before getting me in the room. But it’s hard to really know for sure

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Despite everything. It was quite an erotic and thrilling way to be dominated. It’s more exciting to look back on afterwards, then it was to experience it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The helplessness, humiliation, and thinking it would never end. Being trapped under their weight and not able to move much.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? a little negative

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