Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him on an online chat – a freelance writer. We were texting each other for quite some time before we decided to meet up. Hooking up was not even part of our conversation before. We used to talk about our interests and the relationship that we have with our current partner/s. We share stories and jokes over text and share our best stoned experience.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We planned to smoke weed together so we set up a date for it. Our plan is to pay for a room but we ended up at my condo.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We never thought that we will end up fucking each other. The shotgun smoke kiss started it all. He complimented the kiss and asked for more until we found ourselves taking each other’s clothes off and making our way to my bed. He complimented everything I did to him especially the kisses and the head. We did almost EVERYTHING, we both came and cuddle each other after. He spent the night at my place and I prepared breakfast the next morning. I assumed that this will only be a one-night thing but I was surprised when he continued to text me and asked if we can smoke again.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? At first I was stoned and found him hot but then now I realised that my Saturdays are no longer “Saturdays” without me spending time watching movies with him, smoking and getting really silly with him. Smart and funny guy.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Weed.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We decided to continue seeing each other every Saturday. I don’t really expect anything from him since he has a girlfriend and he’s not a husband/boyfriend material to me. Besides he mentioned something about marrying his girl. I also informed him that we can’t be friends when our silly affair is over. We never talked anything about his girl neither anything about my guy. We both know where we stand.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Couple of friends.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? NO. Not at all. We definitely clicked in bed.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best things are the cuddles. The jokes we tell to each other. Over the week he would ask me of what movies i’d like to watch and he downloads it for us. I can throw tantrums at him and bitch around without him taking it seriously. The awkward moments never lasted. We interact like we dont have any inhibitions at all. It doesn’t really change the way I think about casual sex. We don’t really talk about our affair, we just let it happen.
There were attempts of me trying to find a new fuck-buddy or at least someone that I’ll have some future with but he knows how to pull me back whenever I go running away from him. Worst is if one day after all this I’ll hear him regretting everything that we did… because I won’t.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? With the affair I’m having with this guy now, it made me realise that it’s not just the sex that will make you see that person again. It’s the cuddles that you do, the talks and the jokes you tell each other and the interests that you are willing to share.
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