What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Charlotte
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Programmer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Sci-Fi Con 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? 19 Years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This is the same girl from my Sci Fi Con 1 event. It was about 18 months later and been dumped by my girlfriend about 4 months back. She found me at the con membership check in on Saturday when she was getting her badge. We struck up a conversation and talked for about 20 minutes while she was in line. Once she got her membership I apologized and said I had to go meet a friend. She was here with her parents (Sigh…) and a friend. She said it was good meeting me again, and I leaned in to give her a kiss on the lips. She reciprocated but did not go overboard and that made me feel a lot better about the coming weekend.
She had stopped dying her hair as blonde as before and stared streaking it. It looked much better as she had let her hair grow just a little longer to give her those little points at the end. She was in a normal T-shirt and blue jeans. I think her T shirt was fandom related, but I cannot remember. Her breasts looked larger than I remembered, but that may have just been me being hopeful.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We spent the day running into each other off and on, but never really did much with her. She could now pass for over 21 now and did not need her cousin to get her drinks. I however still needed help. The bartender was a guy this time so all it took was a bright smile a little wink and she had two drinks. We had too much to drink that night and were pretty tipsy but never got to the point of badly impaired judgement. After a few drinks we had started kissing fairly heavily. We were in the back corner of the room and I began playing with her breasts through her clothing which seemed to really turn her on.
There were a good number of people in the suite with us so I did not go that far with her. I think she finally noticed the umber of people and asked if I knew some place else to go. She was here with her parents so her room was out. I suggested my room as I could put out the Do Not Disturb sign to keep my roommates out. She got up and started walking out so I quickly followed her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The hook up was fairly straight forward. We were both drunk enough that that it did not take much to get us out of our cloths. We played around on one of the beds for a while and I went down on her. She seemed to remember this well and spread her legs without a word. I licked, sucked, and fingered her until she came twice and made me stop. She rested to catch her breathe while I stoked my self looking at her.
She had filled out and was nicely curvy in the past 18 months. He pubic hair had been trimmed but not shaved. She had very small bright pink nipples and areola that were fairly sensitive. I began sucking them while she recovered. After that I was very hard and put on a condom. We had sex in missionary position twice. She did not cum doing those, but seemed to be enjoying the time. After the second time I pulled out and licked her cunt again giving her a third orgasm. After that we laid on the bed with each other until she got up to take a quick shower.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Not much. My friends had figured I had someone over, but never really asked about it. I never saw her at the con after that and have never seen her again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one really, but my roommates knew what had happened since the Do Not Disturb sign was on the door.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? She seemed a little reluctant through out the day for flirting and physical contact. This may have been because her parents were with her. While they were not at the convention, they could have shown up if they decided to go into the main area. After we were at the room party she became very enthusiastic about it. I hope that the alcohol did not have anything to do with her decision for sex.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was fun.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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