What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Houston
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Second Tinder Date
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Short Blonde, great ass, medium breasts.
Met on tinder at a local pub for a glass of wine.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met for a drink during the week. Just hugged goodbye. The Saturday after offered to cook her dinner at her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived at her place around 7 PM. I brought a bottle of wine and she already had one open too when I arrived. Every time, she would turn around I would admire her figure. I cooked dinner we ate had wine, still at this point very shy and acting friendly only. After dinner, we put Orange Is The New Black on TV. After a few episodes and more wine, I finally kissed her. She said “finally” we then started to make out hard. Slowly worked my and up to her nipples, she did not pull away, pulled down the collar of her shirt and sucked on her perfect pink nipples. The make-out session continued to heat up. Exploring lower and lower, first rubbing a hand on top of her jeans, then to fingering her with jeans on. Kissed my way down her stomach tugging at her jeans just getting her panties far enough down I just lick the top part of her slit and smell her aroma. Finally, the jeans come off and I can see her in the raw totally open finally able to fully take her in my mouth. She abruptly stops me and says “we can’t do this.” She pulls her jeans back on. We sit on the couch again and kiss. I put her hand on my throbbing bulge and she squeezes back. I unzip my pants and stroke my dick. She whispers “I want that in me” and quickly undresses again. We start fucking her on the couch my on my knees between her legs, then doggy. She just keeps moaning and saying “don’t cum in me.” We finish and start back up again 30 minutes later this time she leads me to her bed, lays there spreads her legs and says “you have a beautiful penis”. I don’t last long and we again retired to the couch.
30 minutes later she is on her knees between my legs sucking my dick. I can’t cum but she keeps on sucking like a pro. Finally, I can feel it building I tell her not to stop and she swallows!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met up a few more times but only kissed. She moved.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The blow job at the end. I still masturbate to this day reliving it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Worried about pregnancy
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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