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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bicurious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? ~9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Secret Post-Threesome Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last month

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Priya, a light-skinned Indian girl with a sexy yogi’s body. She has a pretty face and short black hair. She’s femme, but just boyish enough to turn me on, the best of both worlds. I wanted to do something with her, but I didn’t even know what (never done more than make out with a girl) (more or less).

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My boyfriend and I had been wanting to have a threesome with another woman for a while and it finally worked out. We met Priya first in our yoga classes. I told my bf I thought she was sexy right away, but we could never really find a casual way to talk to her before or after our busy classes. Eventually, we ran into her at a bar on a Saturday night and said hi. She was with friends and we were with friends, but we made time to introduce ourselves and she was really friendly and responsive. After some drinks and some talking, I whispered in her ear and asked her who she thought was the hottest person at the bar. She looked surprised at the question and kind of blushed. I think she got that I was hitting on her so she pointed out a sexy white girl on the dance floor. She asked me and I told her I thought she was the hottest. She blushed and said – and it was so cute I almost lost it – that she wanted to say me but was too nervous.

A couple of hours later she was at my place with my bf and I. He watched for a while as she and I hooked up on our bed. It was like a revelation to me. Her lips felt so soft and delicious against mine. My hands were all over her and vice versa, and soon we were both out of our clothes and I got to taste every part of her body. I was nervous to go down on her and I think she could tell, so she took control, getting low and slowly making her way to my pussy. I was already so wet when she started slowly licking me. As I was getting the best head of my life my boyfriend came over and put his dick in my face, and I sucked him while Priya was sucking me. I came, squeezing my thighs around Priya’s head, so hard she could barely move. Then I moved aside and watched as my boyfriend fucked Priya. When I was back to reality after the amazing orgasm she gave me I got closer and kissed all over her face and tits as she was getting fucked. As she came she looked into my eyes and we shared this really intimate, really sexy moment. I was so into her. We both sucked my boyfriend off and when we were all done Priya took a shower and we paid for her cab home. My boyfriend and I both agreed it was the best sex we’d had in a long time, but honestly, all I had was Priya on my mind.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was texting her a lot as the week went by. A few days after our hookup I found out I could get off work early. I didn’t tell my boyfriend but I texted Priya right away. She told me to meet her at her place.

My boyfriend is really jealous and he wouldn’t be okay with me hooking up without him, but after such an intimate experience with Priya, I knew I wanted to have her to myself for a couple of hours. I headed over to her place hoping she wanted me just as bad. She told me to meet her at her door. As soon as the door was closed behind me and my shoes were off, I kissed her. I’m not even sure we said more than hello, but it didn’t matter. I went and lied down and she lied on top of me and we spent a solid 30 minutes just making out and gradually taking our clothes off. Her fingers found me and started massaging me and I was almost floating above my body. I just wanted her so bad at this point. I found her pussy and started giving her the best I could. Her warm wet pussy at my fingers felt so perfect and natural. I couldn’t wait to taste her. She clearly felt the same thing because she crawled down and started licking me. I was so happy to have her tongue in me again, but I told her I wanted to taste her, so she flipped around and I was licking her like I’d been doing it for years. I almost couldn’t focus because of what she was doing to me. I came first, louder than I usually am. She told me I didn’t have to go on, but I wasn’t going to stop. I went down on her for a while, trying to repeat the things she responded to, and finally, she came, and I felt her thighs tighten around my head this time. I looked at the time and realized I didn’t have long before my boyfriend would start to wonder where I was. Priya let me shower, I borrowed some of her mouthwash and I almost made it to the door without making out with her again – but not quite. Once we were able to pry ourselves off of each other, we had a last goodbye kiss and I left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We’ve both texted a lot saying how much we liked it and how bad we want to do it again. I definitely have feelings for her, but I love my boyfriend and I won’t ever leave him. Still, I don’t feel bad, because I’d never been intimate with a woman like that and I’ve always wanted to. We’re trying to find a chance to do it again – we’ll see!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel more confident, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anybody! Don’t want to risk it, and don’t want to make my girlfriends awkward.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Where to start? It was great sex, but also a beautiful, new experience being intimate with a woman for the first time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The secrecy and worrying about getting caught.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I feel such a strong desire for her/women now I’m not sure how it’s going to affect my relationship.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Before my bf, I had casual sex a few times. It really depends on the partner.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? The stories can be sexy and educational. I was happy I could contribute one.

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