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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Seduced by a man

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a few years younger. I was outside my hotel and he was walking in from a night at the bar. He struck up a conversation, really nice guy. I thought he was cute, but I didn’t think anything would happen.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He got on the subject of oral sex. He implied that it doesn’t matter if a guy or girl gives you head, it all feels the same. I just laughed and agreed nervously. He then said he was going to follow me to my room to talk some more. I didn’t say no.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we got to my room, he made his move toward me and kissed me. I pulled him into me and kissed him back. Up to this point, I had only been curious about being with a man, but I wanted him. We kissed for a while and took each other’s shirts off. My dick was hard and pressing against my shorts. He pulled it out and stroked it while kissing my lips and neck. The I sat on the edge of the bed while he proceeded to give me my first gay blowjob. I loved it! His hair was cut short and I enjoyed the feeling of it as I rubbed the back of his head. After a few minutes of him sucking me I pulled him up for another kiss. I could taste my dick on his lips, it drove me wild. I pulled him on the bed and pulled his pants down. I rubbed his dick through his underware. He said “oh you’re going to like this” and I understood why when I pulled his cock out. It was beautiful. At least 8 inches and very thick. I immediately took him into my mouth and gave him the best blow job I could. I must have sucked him for 20 minutes and he showed no signs of cumming. I positioned him on the bed facing me. Then I kissed my way up his body until I found his lips again. Now I was straddling him with his massive dick between my legs. I reached back and guided it to my asshole. I slowly lowered myself onto him. His beautiful cock slid slowly inside my virgin ass. Once I relieved enough and got him in and out a few times, I started bouncing up and down faster. He was thrusting up to meet me each time my as came down. I was getting all of him. We fucked like this for at least 10 minutes. I wanted him to cum in my mouth, but we got carried away and he fucked me until he filled my ass with cum. After he cleaned up, I have him another blow job and he stroked himself to another orgasm, which I swallowed.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt nervous because we didn’t use protection. And sore because he was so big.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A girlfriend and FWB. She thought it was hot.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His dick!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The pain

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me realize I like sex with men as well as women

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? He and I are still friends on Facebook, though we never hooked up again after that night.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’m addicted to this project!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!