What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Massachusetts, USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Seducing a Chef
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a friend of my roommate’s. He had come to visit my roommate and we had hit it off. He was planning to come back into town a month later and I planned to seduce him. He is attractive and a kind person. He has beautiful eyes.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at my roommate’s boyfriend’s house hanging out and I started flirting with him trying to get him to come back to our house instead of going to meet his other friends. I had planned to seduce him and we ended up getting a bit drunk and groping each other under the table while we were hanging out with friends. We walked back with my roommate and her boyfriend to my house. My roommate went to bed and I brought him to my room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got back to my place and he undressed me pretty immediately. We made out for a while then he ate me out for about half an hour. He was too drunk to get hard so he got me off and then we went to sleep. I had to go to work at 8 the next day so I “accidentally” shifted in my sleep and woke him up around 5AM. We fooled around and he ate me out for another half hour. Then we had penetrative vaginal intercourse with me on top at first and then him on top to finish. We came together which was cool, I orgasmed due to the penetration as well as my own manual stimulation on my clit with fingers. We quickly showered together afterward during which we just made out and groped each other.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to work and he went to our couch that he was staying on for the weekend and left before I got home. I sometimes text him with cooking questions as he’s a chef. He lives pretty far so there probably won’t be a repeat but if he came to town I’d have sec with him again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends, they were cool with it, they wanted details.
My mom, she decided I had a boyfriend now (she does that after any first date I go on though so that was expected).
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He was talented and really liked to give oral. He also had a nice penis and couldn’t keep his hands off me even when I was going to grab a condom.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had forgotten to put my sheets back on the bed so I had to do that before anything else happened.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I did and still think casual sex is normal, it made me feel confident.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? He had brought our house homemade food and beer as a thank you for sleeping on our couch for the weekend and my roommate let me have the last beer because I had sex with him. It was a nice perk.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s important for people to experiment and casual sex is natural. I’d like others to be more accepting of it.
I don’t have sex that often because I’m busy with my degree but when I do it’s typically casual or friends with benefits.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s fun to post here and read other’s stories. Nothing better than a good sex story.
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