Location: South Africa
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: in a relationship
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best: kinky
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Seducing My Ex While Her Bf Is Out of Town
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sex with an ex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Blonde slim girl, big breasted, intense sex appeal, heavily religious on the outside. I dated her for 2 years. We had an extremely kinky sex life, we both liked it often and neither of us held back while we were at it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We stayed in touch after our break up. Over text messages she told me about a book she was reading and how one of the characters reminded her of me and our sex live. I knew her bf was out of town and I wanted to find out if I could seduce her. I eventually convinced her, to come over to my place to catch up over dinner. She was dressed revealingly, her cleavage was on display and her tight shorts showed off her legs and firm ass. I immediately knew she had considered the possible outcome of her showing up and only maybe only needed my persuasion. After we talked and ate, I teased her about dressing up for me. It got to the point, where I openly told her what I would like her to do to me sexually. She was reserved at first and laughed it off.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My demands made me extremely hard and I just went for it. I undid my belt and down came my pants and boxers. She was both shocked and intrigued by my behaviour. My gamble worked, she gave into me and took me into her mouth. We ended up in bed and it got very kinky. When I took off her panties, I was happy to see how wet she was and to my surprise, completely unshaven. She confessed that she purposely did not shave to use her unshaven pussy as a mental block, to keep her embarrassed and stop her from giving into me. It only turned me on more. I had very much missed her smell and taste and I fingered, teased and ate her out until she came. We licked, sucked, touched, fingered, fucked until we fell asleep. It was great sex and had the intensity of two lovers returning from a long trip apart. We both orgasmed several times, throughout the night and again in the morning. It was like we knew, we could just do and ask for anything, as we weren’t dating each other anymore.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms and she was on the pill.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Curiosity and a great past sexual history together. Our understanding of each others needs and desires.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? One glass of wine each.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The sex was amazing and we both moved on, yet I felt guilty for seducing her while her bf was away. I took advantage, because I knew she was still into me. I wanted to sustain a casual fling with her after. But we both came to our senses and realised it wasn’t fair towards her bf. In the end I’m glad it was only one night, even though the sex would have been worth the trouble. I’m no longer in touch with her and last I heard she left the country. Our night remains a kinky memory that occasionally enjoy replaying in my head.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The SEX and the tension before we got naked. I enjoyed putting her into a situation that was both shocking and erotic. I think it was important for both of us to have this experience and I realised that maybe, monogamy can never completely satisfy ones sexuality.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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