Location: New Mexico
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Not religious
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Have tried bisexual experiences
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? One year ago and continuing
How would you best classify this hookup? FWB
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This all began about a year ago. Being alone and lonely I began going to the local senior center. We are all average looking. All shapes, sizes and ethnicities. Everyone is friendly and enjoys each others company.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The senior center is about two-thirds female. When I was new to going there I quickly realized I was “new meat”. The ladies were very friendly and I went home with one for “coffee”, sex, the third day. She explained to me that many there had hook ups. After that I was introduced to several other ladies whom I have had sex with as well as a few threesomes and a couple experiences with couples. It is never really openly mentioned at the center. It is more like, would you like to come over for a drink? Wink wink
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? They have all been good sex partners. Very enjoyable. Very open and sharing. The best sexual time of my life. A lot of oral sex especially. Every one discusses what their sexual limits are ahead of time. I really like the threesomes.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? It depends on your partner. Some prefer condoms and some don’t. Everyone is STD safe, we get checked regularly.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? A lot of us like a single life as we age but still need intimacy and sex.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No drugs, occasionally we may have a drink or two.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? No one is guilt ridden or really have expectations beyond what we do. A few have found love and paired off and good for them.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? YES!
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? NO!
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Absolutely the best time of my life. Yes it has changed the way I think about things. A lot of people go visit their parents or grandparents and they don’t know about the naughty little secret that we have.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Who knew old age could be so good.
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