by Peter DiRoma
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NYC
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Musician
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 45
Senior Ski Trip
How long ago did this hookup happen? 21years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? 5’3 Blonde; an acquaintance in HS. She was very attractive, mature, carried herself much older than 18 years old. I thought she was sweet but I never imagined doing anything sexual.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? On our HS Senior Trip in her room. There was nowhere to buy food and it was 1:00 and she offered her last piece of bread and remaining Nutella. There was no planning and she instigated more than me. I ate the bread and spread and noticed her cute feet and offered her a massage. She said yes and put her feet up on my knee and I massaged her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Touching with hand and a foot job. I couldn’t believe it was happening. To my surprise, she rubbed her foot over my hard-on and back and forth over my shorts. She sat up saying “you have a huge cock. Let me see. ” SHE went in my shorts and put on hand on top of the other, announcing two hands. She drizzled baby oil all over my dick AND rubbed the bottom of her cute , soft feet all over my Dickinson. Then she put her feet together and using her insoles pumped out a huge load that shot in the air all over the top of her sweatshirt and her neck and chin. She laughed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She would tease me. I would have enjoyed doing more othan again but it didn’t happen. I think she was a lot of fun and mature. I think of her fondly.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Experiencing a foot job
I had a foot fetish but didn’t know about this.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
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