by Sweclec

Gender: Female
Age: 40
Race/ethnicity: White Hispanic
Current location: Florida
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Therapist
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Seven Years Younger

How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I worked with this man. He’s 7 years younger than me. I was not attracted to him at first but he pursued me relentlessly.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I instigated the hook up. It happened at a cheap motel. The best sex of my life. We’ve hooked up several times after that.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He gave great head. He loves to go down on me. We both speak Spanish so the dirty talk is amazing. The sex was vaginal. He was on top, pulled my hair gently, which was awesome. Then I got on top. He had great stamina and lasted a long time. He was the best lover I ever had. We didn’t talk about anything.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, I had several orgasms and he had 2

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms. No, we didn’t discuss STI’s

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Just had gotten out of a marriage and wanted to leave my comfort zone

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We drank a bit but not much

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hook up the first time, I felt empty. After subsequent hook ups with this guy, I just felt satisfied.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. She was supportive

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, this was consensual. We have AMAZING chemistry

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, i don’t regret the hookup

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about the hook up was the sex itself. It was amazing. The worst was the lack of intimacy. This hookup has made me see that I can be more liberated sexually

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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