What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Computer programmer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Two men, somewhat heavy, mid-50s.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to a local sex club. I was a bit drunk and very horny. I don’t consider myself gay, but occasionally I can get a bit excited about the prospect of cocks. This was one such night. I went upstairs where the private rooms are. A man was on all fours on the padded table, completely naked.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I walked right up to him and pulled down my pants. He immediately began sucking my cock. After a moment another man came in, closing the door behind him. The second man went behind the first man and began rubbing his asshole. I laid down on the table and the first man continued sucking me. The second man began fucking the first in the ass, and I reached underneath and felt his balls. After a little while he started grunting, and shot his load in the first guy’s ass. Slipping his cock out, he came around to the other side of me and then both started sucking my cock. I was having a hard time cumming, so at some point I spread my legs a little wider and asked him to put a finger in my ass. He pushed a finger in hard. It hurt a little but also turned me on. A minute later I shot my cum in his mouth. Then I cleaned up and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a bit ashamed to have cheated on my wife and to have engaged in gay sex, but it was an exciting event and I’d do it again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The novelty and taboo nature of it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? A bit of guilt.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I want to do it again. I love anonymous sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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