What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight, don’t have sex often
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years ago.
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met on dating website. She came over and hung out. We played board games and cards for a little bit, then watched a movie. She was nice and friendly. She was a little overweight, but had a big butt and full breasts. She had short hair and pretty eyes. Nice curves.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning. We were sitting on the couch after the movie and we were both tired. We were cuddling and I asked if she wanted to cuddle on the bed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were cuddling in my bed and I noticed her pants were unzipped and she was shaved. I sucked on her big boobs and we mainly did missionary and doggystyle. Missionary was when she had a lot of orgasms. She moaned loudly and kept sitting up when she came. We slept afterwards. She asked for it again in the morning and we had more sex. Nothing kinky and no oral. Just good fucking.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met again, maybe a few months later and hooked up again. We’re friends now.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I wanted to date her and possible relationship. More of a hookup for her.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Really deep penetration in both missionary and doggy. Watching her big boobs sway back and forth.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Wanted more afterwards emotionally.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I prefer sex in a relationship, but do have a strong sex drive. Wouldn’t mind hooking up with her again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Enjoy your sexuality. Only you can determine when it’s right to sleep with someone, frequency, etc..
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I had sex with an ex recently, but haven’t had sex in months. I’m ok going without sex, but hopefully will enjoy it with someone special soon.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a cool website to gain perspective on people’s sexual experiences.
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