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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Scotland
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Lecturer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Highly sexed
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Sex Feast After A Famine

How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Separated

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She’s tall, blonde, and has huge 38GG breasts. We met on a well known free dating website. She contacted me as she was attracted to my eyes. She knew from my eyes that I was very sexual. She was right! We chatted for a short while and the conversation soon got round to sex. We realized we were both up for it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After we had been chatting about our sexual needs and desires I suggested that we meet up, and she suggested tonight. As I was quite near where she lived I said yes to that idea. She gave me her phone number and address and I was knocking at her door about an hour later.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She let me in and we sat down together and got to know each other before we went to bed together. I was shaking with desire as it had been a long time since I’d had sex. I had recently separated from a sexless marriage and I was desperate for sex.
This girl and I got on really well and she put her hand on my leg and slowly caressed me. We both couldn’t stand waiting any longer, so we went into her bedroom, stripped off, and got into bed with each other. It soon became obvious that her sexual desires and mine were just as intense, as we very quickly got down to some great action together. I was extremely wet and she commented on how nice my precum tasted. She was a bit of a connoisseur and loved the taste of mine. It was great getting head as my ex-wife was a prude and very rarely gave head. (Or anything else either). To prevent me from cumming too soon, as I was getting very close, I got her to lay down on her back and I licked her meaty pussy for a long time until I got her to cum violently. After that, we fucked in various positions one after the other. Doggy, missionary, cowgirl, and many others. At one point I was tweaking her nipples and she came just from that. I’ve only ever met one other girl who could get close to that.
Throughout the night one of us would wake up and if it was her, I’d feel a hand grabbing my cock, or if I woke up she would feel my hand on her breasts or pussy. We had sex about seven different times that night.
I eventually left her in the morning after breakfast.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt fantastic. This girl gave me hope that I would be able to find a woman who enjoyed sex as much as I did.
My ex-wife was very boring in bed if I could even get her to have sex that is.
I realized with this girl that there were girls out there who enjoyed sex as much as I did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It satisfied the sexual frustration that I had at the time. My ex-wife and I hadn’t made love in years. The sex I had that night was intense.
She also complimented that I had a nice cock, so that was good too.
It was also good that I realized that there were women that enjoyed sex as much as I did. My ex never enjoyed sex as much as I did and somehow made me feel guilty whenever I wanted it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? As I’d not had sex for years and didn’t masturbate often I couldn’t get my cock fully hard whilst making love to her. This was worrying and unexpected.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has made me desire casual sex and having a fwb.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s interesting to read how other people end up in a casual relationship.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!