by Chris

Gender: Male
Age: 64
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Saint Paul, MN
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Higher education
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Protestant
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sex in a Portland Sex Club

How long ago did this hookup happen? Three months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The club had many good looking people who were dancing, drinking, making out, having sex and walking around naked.

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sex in public

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We’d gone to dinner, then to a strip club and then walked over to the sex club. We’d talked about it and planned it and done a little research, read reviews, etc. It wasn’t our first time in a club like this.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started by putting some of our clothes in a locker, getting drinks, walking around with someone to get a tour, and then just settling down on the first floor where there was dancing. Then we went to the second floor and into a room with a swing – used it with the door closed.  Then we hung out on the second floor a little, then moved to the third floor where there were more private and public play areas.  We went into a room and started to have sex and left the door open and people watched us.  Then we moved out to a big room with a lot of beds.  We watched for a while – people were having intercourse and oral sex.  We moved to a bed next to a threesome and my wife started sucking my cock.  People were watching and came very close – a guy was getting a blowjob right at our feet, but we weren’t touching.  We moved to another room and watched a foursome, and then started having sex again in a different room – people watched but didn’t join us.  I was a little disappointed that no one joined us, but we were watched a lot, and that was a huge turn-on.  We were among the last to leave and had a great time. We went back to our hotel and had more sex, and again the next morning.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, I did more than once and she did, as well.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Since we weren’t having sex with other people, no precautions were necessary.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We’ve talked about swinging a lot an are kind of inching our way to a real hookup. We did have a foursome in France a couple years ago and it was awesome.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We both had several glasses of wine over the course of the whole evening, I guess, but we were not intoxicated.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We felt really good – it was one of the most exciting sexual experiences we’ve had.  I’m sorry we didn’t have any touching or sex with other people, though.  I hope that happens next time.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, but I’d love to.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, absolutely, for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not in the least.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Having sex around other people having sex is a huge turn on for both of us.  My thinking about sex has changed a little – I think that it is fun and healthy when it is all consensual and people are healthy and respectful about it.  I wish we’d started sooner!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? OK, I’m older (64) but athletic and good looking and pass for younger.  My wife is in her early 50’s and hot.  But to the extent that someone might be turned off by age, that worries me. I am most definitely having the best sex of my life, and pretty amazing sex for anyone, regardless of age. If I understood sex in my younger years the way I do now, wow, what fun I’d have had. I’m just going to keep this going as long as possible. It is, in fact, a prime motivation for me to stay healthy, strong and lean. I want to be attractive to other possible sexual partners.

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