What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London, UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Banker
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 260
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several
Sex in the Afternoon
How long ago did this hookup happen? About 7 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? T was a classmate at university. She was sort of geeky-looking, slim, with pale skin, long dark brown hair and glasses. I knew she was attracted to me and I’d flirted with her plenty of times, although I’d never been that interested in her. Our hook-up happened a couple of days after the end of my fling with H, the ex-girlfriend I had serious feelings for who I’ve written about in a previous post. I needed to get laid with someone else to start moving on, and I was pretty sure T would be interested.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At the end of our class one morning I asked T if she wanted to get some lunch and she said yes. I flirted with her pretty blatantly the whole time and at the end I asked if she wanted to come back to my place for some coffee. She smiled and said her place was closer, and we left and walked there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got to T’s place, two of her housemates were in the living room watching TV and she took me in and introduced me to them, which was a little weird. Then we went straight up to her room, took our clothes off and just stood there making out and running our hands all over each other’s bodies. Pretty soon I started fingering her and just kept going until she came. She was so loud that her housemates must have been able to hear us, but that didn’t really bother me. After she came, she dropped to her knees and immediately started sucking my cock. She asked if I had a condom and I said I’d brought one with me. She put the condom on me and I had her get on all fours on the bed, and I stood behind her and got my cock inside her. I didn’t hang around, I just fucked her hard and fast, enjoying the sight and sound of my pelvis and balls smacking against her arse, until I came. She moaned loudly the whole time and the headboard of the bed was banging against the wall, so her housemates must have heard everything again, not that we cared. After that, I got dressed, said I’d see her in class, put the condom in the bin in her bathroom on my way out and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Hooking up with T didn’t make me feel any better about not being able to be with H. But it was hot and fun and it did help me to start moving on. We hooked up a few more times – she’d text me on nights out to ask if I was out too and if I wanted to meet and go back to her place. I haven’t seen her since we both graduated though.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To cheer myself up, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I really didn’t have to do very much to get her into bed. It was good to feel like I was attractive enough that I could just have random sex with a girl like this one afternoon without much effort.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I suppose it was a little awkward that she introduced me to her housemates first, and then that she was so loud that they must have been able to hear her. It was as if she wanted them to be very aware of the fact that she was getting laid. On the other hand, it was sort of hot that they could hear how much she was enjoying fucking me.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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