by The neighbor
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 39
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Senior manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Sex With A Neighbor In The Gym On A Yoga Ball
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last year
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We live in the same apartment building. The apartment has a small gym that few people use. I am married, but I always take off my wedding ring when I work out, to avoid scratching my ring when I lift weights.
I work out there a few times a week. She also started using the gym around the same times as me. She is about 5 foot 6 with an athletic build, short blonde hair. She always wears tights and yoga wear to the gym, and she wears a heavy floral fragrance. For her workouts, she always warms up by taking off her shoes and does an intense routine of stretches, lunges, and jumps in her bare feet. About a few minutes into the routine, she is sweating. Seeing the wetness on her tight clothes, smelling her fragrance, and seeing her in her bare feet was arousing.
After seeing each other at the same times for about two months, we started talking. I never mentioned my marital status. She said she was living with someone. I said the same about my situation. Since we were both new to the area, we talked about places in town, we talked about our jobs, and we exchanged workout tips whenever we were working out at the same time.
About 4 months after our first meeting we touched each other lightly while we were giving each other stretching tips. When we touched, neither of us pulled away. There was some spark when we touched. Since then, we started talking more.
A few weeks later, she came into the gym rather despondent. She was working out harder than usual. She wasn’t talking much. I asked her if she was okay. She told me that her boyfriend had been cheating on her. She then started to cry. I hugged her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When I hugged her, she didn’t pull away. She held me tighter. She kept crying, so I held her closer to me too. Feeling her hot and sweaty body and smelling her fragrance started to give me an erection. When she stopped crying, she looked at me and started kissing me. I reciprocated. This escalated quickly, as I started to lick her neck and behind her ears. She started biting my neck and her tongue began deep throating me with her kisses. We were feeling each otjhers sweaty bodies. That’s when I said we should lock the door to the gym. She said yes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We sat on one of the workout benches to continue kissing. Taking it to the next level, I pulled off her leggings, sat her on a yoga ball, spead her legs and started to lick her pussy. Her crotch was aromatic and sweaty and her body was sticky from her sweat. It was totally arousing to me to be giving her oral. She was moaning. I inserted two fingers deep into her vagina and started to finger fuck her rapidly. She was very wet at this point I wanted to taste her sweat and juices, so I licked her clitoris as I continued finger fucking her. She was moaning a lot.
We were both sweating a lot. I took off my clothes. She grabbed my cock and started sucking me. While she sucked me, I reached down and continued to rub her clitoris.
I didn’t want to ejaculate into her mouth, so I pulled out. I got on my knees and pulled her closer to me so I could swirl the tip of my cock around her pussy as she sat on the yoga ball with her legs spread open. Her pussy was wet all over, we were both breathing hard. I couldn’t resist the intensity of that moment. I just penetrated into her. She seemed to encourage this too, because she rolled forward on the yoga ball, allowing me to penetrate deeper into her. We started fucking like that, with me thrusting in and out and her rolling up and down on the yoga ball in rhythm.
We changed positions to take a break. I sat on the yoga ball and she sat on me and rode me, boucing on me on the yoga ball.
It was a very erotic and intense sexual work out. We were panting, sweating, and moaning. When we were tired from that position, she laid her stomach on the yoga ball, and I penetrated her from behind, doggy style. I had to bend forward to penetrate better. That seemed to be the most intense position for her. Her body was quivering. Seeing that led me to an orgasm. I ejaculated on her ass and back.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She cleaned up in the restroom. We gave each other a hug and left the gym and went our separate ways back to our apartments. I never saw her again after that.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I kept this to myself.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Very much
Why do you regret this hookup? It was cheating and I didn’t have a condom at the time. We both seemed to get caught up in the moment with the emotions and the allure of our sweaty hot bodies.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex on the yoga ball felt awesome. It was the best position I ever tried.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cheating, not knowing each other more, not using protection.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t think hookups are a good thing.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? In retrospect, I think her openness to me, such as us touching tha first time, was because she was already having problems with her boyfriend.
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