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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Councellor
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I love the company of men and am attracted to good looking ones
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100 to 150
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Sex Never Felt This Good Before

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Most of my partners were met at gay baths. They looked good clad only in a towel. They were strangers to me. I felt I would like to meet them and know them more personally

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Hookups began with brief conversations with no planning…just interest in getting to “know” them. Either myself or they themselves.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The behavior was fondling each other’s body parts and included oral contact with genitals. Nothing anal or kinky. I felt pleasure and fulfillment. My partner felt submissive, supporting, and cooperative. Yes, most are always good lovers. We talked about how we both were satisfying each other. Aaaaaaaah…our hookups usually ended with an orgasm by one or both of us.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I reminisced about the good time we had and anticipated about another hookup sometime. I think of them as a wonderful caring friend.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Our commitment was as pleasurable as possible

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was none

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not a bit

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? My partner and I experienced a common love for each other’s need and willingly gave all that was necessary to have those needs and desired met.

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