What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 nights ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was working at the bar that I went to. A Medium build Latina girl, naturally beautiful, around 5′ 7″. I was immediately attracted to her when our mutual friend introduced us.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’ve been traveling in Costa Rica for a while and visited a small village by the sea for a few days. At the hostel I stayed at, the waitress (A) invited me out for drinks with her and her friends that night, which I keenly accepted. She took me to a few bars, ending at one where B was working at the bar. After introducing us in Spanish (since B spoke no English) A told me that B thought I was attractive, and so I tried my best to flirt in Spanish all night, which was a real challenge as I got progressively drunker. I was too tired to wait until B finished work at 2 am, so I told her I’d be back the following night, and I went back to my hostel with A and smoked some weed. The next night, B and I were flirting much more heavily and making out when the bar became briefly empty. I waited until she finished work, and suggested that we go to the beach since I’d heard it would be a good night to see the bioluminescence. She agreed, so we walked down and sat on the steps and watched the waves crashing and shimmering a bright blue. As I held her, she faced me and we started to kiss, first gently and then more passionately.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started undressing each other and soon she was biting my neck and starting to rub my already hard cock. I kissed her nipples, and she started to moan. Her technique was better than any I’ve ever experienced, and when she lowered herself to begin sucking the head of my penis I was in heaven. We made eye contact and I knew she wanted me inside her so I pulled her up and she sat on me on reverse cowgirl. She was so wet and her pussy lit by moonlight was a beautiful sight. Soon her moans began to drown out the soft roar of the ocean, and we switched up so I was entering her from behind. Until this point, we had been fucking slowly and passionately, so I increased the pace, and her moans swelled. After 10 more minutes or so, I told her I was about to cum, and she told me she wanted it in her mouth. I pulled out and she swallowed every drop, milking my cock dry.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We sat on the beach naked for another half hour or so watching the bioluminescence, trying to converse with my limited Spanish, which was funny for both of us. She gave me one of her leather anklets to remember her by, and I told her she should come back and sleep with me, even though I was in a dorm. She agreed, and we slept in the tiny bed and fucked a few more times in the morning once people left the dorm for the day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A, the waitress
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was perfect, passionate and amazing sexually. It was also interesting having the inability to say certain things due to the language barrier.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That she lives in a tiny village thousands of miles from England
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great! It’s important to be open and honest about sex in society for a plethora of reasons
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