What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Not sure why this would be relevant
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK, London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Media
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Less than 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Sex Party

How long ago did this hookup happen? Ten years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We were all young 20s and 30s. I hadn’t met them before. We didn’t know each other.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was single and had been feeling desperately horny but I didn’t have a boyfriend at the time. I’d read about a single woman who had gone to a sex party on her own and it gave me the inspiration and courage to go myself. I essentially just wanted to get fucked – a lot.
I asked the organisers a couple of questions before the event. I carefully chose my underwear and outfit. A flattering dress that would be easy to get into and out of and hold0up stockings and sexy underwear including a bra that was thin and not padded so that the outline of my nipples could be seen through my dress. I shaved my pussy leaving just a little bit of hair on the top. I bought condoms, lube and something to make my lipstick stay on throughout my sexual encounters (It didn’t work). I was a bit nervous about going to the party on my own and not knowing anyone so I had a drink before I left home. I was however, very excited and my pussy was wet at the prospect of this party. I was so excited and turned on by the thought of getting fucked a lot all night. I had to keep wiping myself – heehee.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got to the party a little late after 10pm so that I could blend into a buzzy party as opposed to one where not many people had arrived. A young male and female couple were chatting to another couple on a sofa. When the saw me they left the couple and came to chat to me. After some time people started to move to the bedroom and the couple asked me to come to the bedroom and join them on the bed. The female and I took it in turns to tease and suck her boyfriend’s cock and then we undressed each other, caressed each other and had oral sex teasing each others nipples, clits and vaginas – which was interesting for me as the female had a tongue piercing – whilst her boyfriend and other assorted guests watched us. The bed we were on was occupied by other people so I had anonymous hands stroking my breasts, my nipples, my whole body. It was an interesting sensation to have your naked body caressed by many hands. At that point a guy behind me, turned me around and brought my face up towards his already hard cock. He face fucked me whilst his partner watched and I toyed with my wet clit and vagina. The guy got good and harder and indicated for his girlfriend. I turned around on the bed and had a great-looking guy pull me towards him. He lay me down on the bed gently separated my thighs and started licking my clit whilst I played with my nipples. It was the best oral I had ever received at that point. I had never previously enjoyed oral but this guy’s technique of licking my clit brought me to complete ecstasy. It blew my mind. I returned the favour sucking and licking his cock and then he laid me down on the bed, spread my legs wide apart and fucked me. I could barely breathe as I was so looking forward to being filled with hot cock and fucked hard. I’d been single for a while which was what brought me to the party and so my sex life at the time consisted of me regularly masturbating and using a (not living/breathing) vibrator. We fucked, sucked and dripped. We both stroked each other and licked and flicked nipples. He fucked me for ages in different positions across the bed. After we’d finished I took the opportunity to put my dress back on (Minus bra and knickers) and have a break and talk to some of the other folks at the party who were also having a break. Afterwards I went back into the room to watch the action with the other guys and girls. I was talking to an older balding guy who was watching the action on the bed and he mentioned that he had watched me on the bed earlier. I liked that. I liked the idea of being watched whilst I masturbated on the bed and whilst I was getting plowed. I had tried to face the guys watching and spread my legs a little wider so that they could watch fingers and cock sliding in and out of my vagina whilst I slowly rubbed my wet clit, sucked my fingers and circled my nipple with my saliva. I guess I liked feeling/acting like a bona fide porn star. Anyway I started feeling horny again and asked the older guy if he’d like to join me on the bed. Funnily enough, he didn’t need to be asked twice. We straightaway got me out of my dress and he stroked my clit and slipped his fingers easily into my vagina. He commented that I was really wet which I was. I was really turned on and utterly soaked between my legs. He gave me great oral (This party really made me love receiving oral) and I gave him oral and he commented that I was really skilled at giving blowjobs. He fucked me in all manner of crowd-pleasing positions and I think he may have taken viagra because he was so hard for so long. I stroked my clit as he was fucking me as I like to get as many orgasms as possible. There were other people getting busy on the bed as we were fucking and again other people watching which as I mentioned, I really, really enjoyed. It added to my experience. I guess I’m a bit of an exhibitionist. Whilst the older guy was fucking me doggy style, there was a younger guy lying across the bed in front of me playing with his cock. He angled his body down the bed until his cock was level with my mouth. He held his cock up to my lips and I took his cock into my mouth and started sucking him as the older guy was fucking me. I’d never had a threesome with two guys before so this was a first for me. I absolutely loved it. I spread my legs wider and squeezed my pussy tighter as they filled two of my holes. Then both guys changed position so that I was now sucking off the older guy with the younger guy fucking me whilst we played with my clit. I definitely enjoyed the MMF threesome over the FFM one. I think it’s that sensation of being ‘filled’ or full up. The younger guy came pretty quickly and then it was me and the older guy again. At this point a lot of people had left the party and we had a guy and a girl chatting whilst watching us and one other couple having sex on the bed. The older guy eventually, finally came after a protracted but much welcomed pounding and we chatted for a while then I got dressed and left the party. It was about around 5:30 – 6am or so. I hadn’t realised the time. There wasn’t much clock watching going on. My body was tingly and aglow (My nerve endings were very alive) and I felt amazing and so satisfied. I’d had great sex and had completely satisfied my horniness.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was still buzzing the next day and was pleased that I’d had the courage to fulfill a sexual fantasy. I didn’t expect to have sex again with any of these people as we didn’t know each other. How do I feel about them now? I thank them for being a part of what was an incredible erotic experience that I sometimes relive whilst masturbating.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I didn’t have a partner at the time.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. This is the first time I’ve spoken about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The very sexy memories of it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I didn’t get the chance to be fucked by the first guy in the couple as I was pulled in a different direction. I would have liked him to have fucked me.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think that life is short, I think that sex is a natural and something that you can’t suppress – like hunger and thirst. I think that if you’re safe and you’re not hurting anyone (Cheating on anyone) there is nothing wrong with casual sex. I’m a very sexual person and I enjoy expressing my sexuality and sharing it with others. I love orgasms and I enjoy my body. I’m not ashamed of my healthy sexuality and I don’t think that anyone else should be. Although I haven’t I would absolutely repeat the experience if I wasn’t getting sex and needed it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that casual sex will become increasingly common and have less stigma attached to it because we live differently and relationships have changed. Nowadays there’s a big hookup culture. People are getting married later if at all and people have access to the internet which makes finding casual sex really easy.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a great idea but then I’m intrigued by sex.

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