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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Vernon
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Pilot
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Sex Shop Voyeur

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I travel a lot for work, so I spend a lot of time in hotels. Hotel rooms tend to make me pretty horny, so when I was in one city I got tired of using my hand and went down to a local sex shop. The girl behind the counter was really cute. She was probably 5’2, 140 lbs, with reddish blonde hair, gorgeous full lips, curvy, and a nice round ass with a flat stomach and very nice, big soft tits. She was kind of geeky and I guess in early 20’s. I thought she was super hot and was already in a very horny mood so I started flirting with her right away.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I walked in and started looking for the male sex toys when she asked if she could help me find something. Now not to be arrogant, but I’m a good looking professional guy, so I assume I’m not really the usual customer that goes into a sex shop at 8:45 pm, but I was still a little surprised that she walked over to help when I expected her to look down at her phone and let me find my porn or whatever us “creeps” need. But she did, and I kind of awkwardly explained the traveling/work/hotel situation and that I was looking for the male sex toys. She walked me over to the row where all the pocket pussies and fleshlights were and started to tell about the most popular ones, the ones that vibrate, the ones with anuses, etc. I was feeling slightly embarrassed, not too bad though, and she was standing right there, so I grabbed one with the hottest porn star picture on the box, (she recommended it because it vibrates too), and said “this one will do perfectly I think……do you guys have a try before you buy policy?”. Now, I was 100% totally joking when I said the last bit. I was feeling a little warm, she was really cute, I was pretty horny, but kind of embarrassed so I was genuinely joking and just trying to lighten the mood so I could get back to the hotel and masturbate. But….she pauses, and looks at me says, “ok”. I was stunned, but before I could stammer anything clever, or embarrassing, she says, “I’ll let you try it if I can watch”.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? There is a changing room at the back of the store where women can try on some of the sexy lingerie and costumes. She leads me back there and tells me to get ready and she’ll be right back. I don’t know what get ready meant, so I sat down on the chair stunned, having no idea what to do next. I didn’t have time to do anything anyway, because in a minute she’s back with some lube, a vibrator, and another chair. She sits down in the other chair and asks me if I’m going to try it out. I’ve been half hard the whole time, so not knowing what else to do, I stand up and take off my pants, my cock bulging a bit under my tight briefs. She leans forward and squeezes it through the fabric, and that’s all the encouragement I needed. She rubbed me for a few minutes, until i was rock hard and then pulled my briefs down and my cock sprang right out. Then she just leaned back in her chair and grabbed the bottle of lube and handed it to me. So, I sat down and got the pussy out of the package and started to lube it up and put some lube on my cock and started to stroke my cock with my hand for a bit while I watched her. Her eyes were transfixed to my cock and she was rubbing her pussy through her jeans. I’m so incredibly horny by this time that I push my cock into the toy pussy and start to bounce it up and down on my cock. After a few minutes of fucking the toy and watching her nipples get hard through her shirt, she undoes the front of her jeans and slides her hand holding the little vibrator inside her panties. We must have watched each other for about 10 or 15 minutes during which she came a few times. The last time very loudly, and that set me off, all it took was a few more thrusts into the pussy and I pulled it off and stroked a few big spurts of cum onto her pant leg and all over the floor. I don’t think I’ve ever cum like that in my life. In a store, with a hot girl I didn’t know, we barely touched each other, there was no sex, just watching each other pleasure ourselves. It was unbelievable.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we were done, she had a huge smile on her face and asked if that toy will do. I didn’t even want to buy the toy, I just wanted her to be my full-time masturbation assistant. I asked her if she wanted to come over to my hotel room that night, but she said she couldn’t, (she has a boyfriend), but we did exchange emails and told me to come in and say hi next time I’m in town, and she’ll gladly come over for some fun.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Spontaneous, Sexy, Intimate,

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It didn’t lead to me having sex with her later. Next time.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes….there are people as horny as me.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex can be just about sex. I wish our ideas about monogamous relationships were more accepting of sex for pleasure. It’s not always an emotional thing that needs to destroy relationships.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.

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